cottoncandy
Well-Known Member
*jazz and popular music from the days of old contained just as many lewd lyrics as todays music.("black snake moan" is not a song about any old snake) the musicians mastered the art that is double-meanings and innuendos. we as a society have become so blatantly open about topics once considered to be taboo. people don't even bother hiding it anymore.I think its kind of a cop out to blame media for the deeper issues and problems this culture has. Back in the day, ella fitzgerald was probably as loathed by parents as eminem is loathed by you.
The issue is that basic ethics and principles has eroded with each generation, and now we're at a point where our fundamental morals and principles are non existent, and that vacancy is filled by commercialized "lifestyles". Not just rap. I listen to alot of punk, and the trend, for awhile, has been to sell an entire outlook: morals, styles, attitudes.
I don't want to say its the parents fault, cus its not really. This is like a societal evolution, and our progression to this point has been a shift from traditional child rearing and personality formation to a commercially dictated method of child rearing and subsequent personality formation.
Just my opinion.
Also, I don't think that is really an turning back from the path that we're on. Materialism is like an inborn drive now.
i agree wholeheartedly with your post. i grew up listening to punk and still do. things were different back in my day. we had to seek it out, not so much prepackaging of a belief system. unlike now. which does create a case of cause and effect. kids today are apathetic towards seeking out new and original ideas. why should they? just add water and you've got yourself an identity.
i'm constantly observing the world around me. not that this is something new, but i'm a mommy now. someone is depending on me to put the world in perspective for them and give them some workings to a path so they can find their own way.
toughest job ever! everywhere i look something is dictating to our kids what they should think, dislike and if you don't get what you want it's ok to act like an ass about it. i think most parents have the best intentions where their children are concerned. no one plans on raising a "charles whitman" or "jim jones".
the thing is once we let them out there in the world we can only hope they retain what info we send them out there with. i eventually opted on home schooling my lil one. it has been an interesting social experiment.
she has no concept of what the hell a "bratz doll" is nor why she should care. she is not phased by other people's physical appearances.
she could give a damn what you think about her. if she wants to wear a tiara every day she is going to wear it! it is a beautiful thing.
we have our tough times i will admit that. like any parent does. i just want her to understand that life is not a tv commercial and there is a lot of dishonesty out there. i want her to be able to have a mind of her own.