Ok. I still don't see any sign of male or female should i trash it or do females show this late? Im about 3 to 4 weeks in. Dont want to hurt my other girls if he's a male. Their all virgins and i want to keep em that way.
Slow down buddy... your light cycle is? Your looking at 4-6 weeks of veg time to see pre-flowers on a veg light cycle. No need to get too excited yet. Don't throw anything away.
My current plants took 8 weeks from seed to finally show preflower. Keep that plant going until you can see the sex. It's not as if the male will bust pollen in a few days of developing balls...