polinating females wont make them turn hermie, it just polinates them
calyx = uterus, pollen sack = male genitalia, pollen = sperm, pistol= plant equivalent to a vagin aI guess
so pollen (sperm) comes from the pollen sacks, and sticks to the pistols (vagina?) than fertalizes the calyx (uterus) and a seed than starts to grow, and that my friend, is where babies come from!
this isnt a great analagy, but, plants aren't people
pollen can be stored for up to 6 months if done right, but if your seeds are bagseed its probably not worth storing