I've got a problem....Need advice.

BongJuice

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I'll try to make this brief.
I have a neighbor whom I've known for awhile now. At first he seemed to be pretty cool, but in the last couple of weeks I've been feeling very skeptical with trusting him.
I've partied with him a bunch of times in the past which led me to believe that he was really cool. One night about a month ago I was sooooooo drunk, and I kind of let the cat out of the bag by telling him that I'm into hydroponics. I told him I was growing vegetables.
Well, a few days later he kept badgering me by asking if he could see my hydroponic grow room. I put it off and I kept telling him today is not a good day, I wanted to feel him out to see if he trustworthy enough to keep his mouth shut.
What I wanted was some dirt. Meaning there has to be something about him that I can hold above his head just in case we ever get into it. I found out that he's got an enormous debt on a credit card that his wife doesn't know about and he likes to sleep around.
Knowing this dirt on him I invited him over a few weeks ago and showed him my grow op.
He was extremely impressed and shocked when he saw it. We sat there at talked about it for awhile. Some of the questions he asked me, I got the feeling that he's been around it at one point in his life.
Anyway's this neighbor of mine is kind of dorky. He feels as though he has to impress me with outrageous stories and things he's encountered in his life. I think he feels inadequate around me now and has to try and measure up to me by telling me these things.
He comes up to me a couple of weeks ago and asks if I'd be willing to partner up with him. He said I would be his partner in some kind of internet web site thing and he would be my partner in growing. He said, were capable of making alot of money.
I turned him down immediately because I told him that I'm not into selling weed, I'm growing for personal use only.
Then he comes up to a couple days later and asks if I'd be willing to help him set up a grow op for him. I said, sure. But he's not interested in growing for personal, he only wants to grow to make money.
He wants to set up a grow op, without his wife knowing about it. So he's coming up with these off the wall ideas, like renting a cargo ship carrier box and gowing in that, or building a grow op underground. He's not kidding, he's totally serious.
I've told him maybe it would be a good idea to set something up small and inexpensive in his garage to see if this would be something that he would even like to do.
So he's already bought a few things for it. But nothing has been put together yet. Yesterday he wanted to hang out and talk about a few ideas he has.
Anyways, while conversting with him he says to me, "Does it bother that I used to be a cop"? Also he says, "He sometimes hangs out with some FED people".
This guy is really making feel very skeptical around him now......
I can't read him.....
I can't tell if he's full of shit or not.
I meet blow hards everyday, and I thought he was one. But lately with all the shit he has said to me lately, I don't know what to think.

What would you do?
 

ElBarto

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The guy is willing to cheat on his wife, how long do you think it will take before he's cheating on you?

I would pull my plants out the ground right now and burn them, then move without leaving a forwarding address.
 

reno420

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he sounds like he would have a big mouth and go telling his cop friends bout it..nd friend to friend they might be like ohh Who set this up for you?..and there's goes your name to a bunch of Feds...
 

crazy-mental

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sounds to me he is having some kind of midlife crisis.
mines bigger than yours.

it sounds he has you by the balls.

i would tell him you are worried about growing.
move out all your grow stuff.
say your selling it.
then move it back in, and fuck him off.

i think he has been watching too much weeds.

get rid of the wanker.as soon as.

plus if his wife finds out anything he has told you.
he might hold you to ranson.
the turn loose cannon comes to mind, but deffo mid life crisis.
 

BongJuice

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Your right....
I'm thinking of telling him that all my plants turned out to be males and I had to get rid of them, and I'm not going to grow it for awhile.
I'm juggling this idea around, not sure yet.
But moving is definite, were planning on moving sometime next summer. Not because of my neighbor.
Mostly because I want a bigger house with a few acres of land.
 

crazy-mental

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if he has told you all kinds of shit.
who is to tell he wont tell any other fucker.
what he is upto with you.
he seems like a big mouth and likes to spin a yarn.
fuck him off.
asap.
 

korvette1977

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I BLAME YOU ... You opened your mouth , Stay away from Booze.... I'd tell him you got a fungus and shut it down.. gotta sterilize everything it'll be 3 months till you start again.. that will buy you 90 days to get rid of him ... YOUR A DUMBASS kick yourself in the head ... Silly Goose
 

crazy-mental

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Your right....
I'm thinking of telling him that all my plants turned out to be males and I had to get rid of them, and I'm not going to grow it for awhile.
I'm juggling this idea around, not sure yet.
But moving is definite, were planning on moving sometime next summer. Not because of my neighbor.
Mostly because I want a bigger house with a few acres of land.

we are also planning to move, but this summer/fall.
if your worried, stop or just say you have.
how long have you got left of your grow?.
are you into flower yet.
matbe move the plants, somewere outdoor.
i wouldnt trust him.
were are you growing.
house/garage?.
 

crazy-mental

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yes you should keep your mouth shut.
look what has happened.
well you have to lern from your mistakes and learn from them.
i know how hard it is, when drinking.
learn from this and keep it shut next time.
i would ask him to help you move them, tell him you are selling your set up.
or say they are all male, and you cannot be bothered with it all, say its too pricey, and you cannot grow for a while, till you get back on your feet.
 

BongJuice

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we are also planning to move, but this summer/fall.
if your worried, stop or just say you have.
how long have you got left of your grow?.
are you into flower yet.
matbe move the plants, somewere outdoor.
i wouldnt trust him.
were are you growing.
house/garage?.
I'm going to put them into flower this weekend. Plus this has to be the best grow I've ever had. It would be a shame to dump it. But believe me I'm contemplating it highly.
I'm growing in my basement, in a very inconspicuous place near the furnace.
 

coadus51283

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Alright let's say he is talking to people. He has already told you he was a cop. He said he talks to FED buddies, yet have you taken notice to any strange people or cars going past your house? He was probably a dirty cop. I wouldn't however trust him enough to let him see the set up, I might talk to him about it though. Tell him everything is gone and don't let him back in your house lol. Hope everything works out for you.
 

BongJuice

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I BLAME YOU ... You opened your mouth , Stay away from Booze.... I'd tell him you got a fungus and shut it down.. gotta sterilize everything it'll be 3 months till you start again.. that will buy you 90 days to get rid of him ... YOUR A DUMBASS kick yourself in the head ... Silly Goose
Your exactly right.....
If it was physically possible, I'd kick myself in the balls.
 

crazy-mental

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you could tell him you have stopped growing
move your set up , or grow it outdoor.
set him up with his own grow, but if you do, he might tell his mates, get busted then grass you.
just say your set up went male, and you have sold your lights.
or say one of your friends have been busted, so you are packing in growing for a while.
keep us posted.
how many plants have you got~?
 

BongJuice

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you could tell him you have stopped growing
move your set up , or grow it outdoor.
set him up with his own grow, but if you do, he might tell his mates, get busted then grass you.
just say your set up went male, and you have sold your lights.
or say one of your friends have been busted, so you are packing in growing for a while.
keep us posted.
how many plants have you got~?
I've got 3 plants 2 are hindu kush and 1 is an unknown strain.
I was planning on taking some cuttings off this week.
I just took a pic to show what they look like now.
 

DR. VonDankenstine

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I don't know where you live but you only have a few smart options---1. If you have legal medical marijuana in your state I would register and go legit(grow what the state allows you to grow under the licence----2. Pull all your shit and just hang out a year or two without growing-feel it out after that.-----Whatever you do stay think small-even if you don't register- stay under the state's maximum plants allowed for medical patient grows------Best of luck to you---that's a real bad situation to be in---I'm sure your not getting much sleep...
 

pandabear

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tell him a cop knocked on your door the other day for some bullshit random thing like you dog got out and it freaked u out so u chopped everything,

then act all sad and tell him to come see the sad damage. move your girls to another locked room and leave the debris like u killed them all and show him that shut down grow (fake) and act all sad.

then be like good luck with yours tell him u will give him advice but u dont want to be a part of growing anymore its just too bad on your nerves


wait but then he may be like well let me get your equipment so u have to say u tossed ti or somthin
 

nickfury510

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I BLAME YOU ... You opened your mouth , Stay away from Booze.... I'd tell him you got a fungus and shut it down.. gotta sterilize everything it'll be 3 months till you start again.. that will buy you 90 days to get rid of him ... YOUR A DUMBASS kick yourself in the head ... Silly Goose
:hump::hump::hump:.......if you didnt know him well enough to know something simple like he used to be a cop.......you sure as hell didnt know him well enough to show him your grow.......bad judgement.....it happens though...i was loaded one night and showed my buddy ive known since we were 8 my grow......next thing i know hes calling me on the phone like a dick and asking about my grow...i told him the plants died and i moved my grow to another spot.....it was a huuuuuge pain in the ass......but i got what i deserved for being an asshole and talkin about shit i shouldnt talk about....:joint::mrgreen:
 

crazy-mental

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you dont have lots and thats good.
i dont think your grow would be hard to hide for a little while.
yes tell him a cop knocked on your door and could you hide your set up in his house.
he will say no, then say youll have to kill them then.
i wouldnt worry too much.
just do something, to make him think you have stopped.
asap.
 

Pookiedough

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Shit just let asshole see you carrying out empty pots and trash bags "make sure he SEES you" then tell him you got mildew and had to scrap the whole mess and you don't think you will be growing again it is just not worth it...look truly sad while you give your performance and he will leave you be.:peace::peace:
 

Solo08

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i think your going against yourself completely. you got dirt on him so use it. and he still thinks that the both of you are buddy buddy right? you have the upper hand. like they say "keep your friends close and your enemies closer". which by the sounds of it he is definetly an enemy. theres so many things you could do to bring this down. i would keep him close and slowly, carefully make him think your gonna go along with his plan while you finish your plants then clean up your grow room. definetly dont take him down there anymore. slowly and carefully keep him out of there while you finish up and just tell him whatever he wants to here. party with him or whatever to make him think every things good. then when you have everything cleaned up soot him down and tell him to keep his mouth shut or giving him up. when he spills what he knows you'll be clean and he'll be without a wife and probably wont be your neighbor anymore. after a few months when things calm down you could set everything up again. i doubt he would wanna make any more false claims to the police again. or you can just cut everything short...why do you feel like your obligated to go with what he wants. just tell him your not goin along with his crap. talk to him and tell him you feel highly threatened by his plans and if he considers you a friend you may beable to talk him out of the whole thing safely. if you trusted him enough to show him your grow room there should be enough trust between the both of you to come across some type of agreement. i have been involved with the streets for a long time. PM me if you want any more help and more details. i can take care of this guy.

EDIT: another thing you can do is just tell him when the plants are done you'll sell him some stuff dirt cheap if he gives you a certain amount of money from him then when the plants are done you can just clean everything up, hide your stash and tell him to go screw himself. ofcourse then you wont beable to grow at your present location anymore. these are just some things i threw together. your options really are wide open here.
 
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