@ flaming. I can judge because I have that perspective. I speak from a broad range of experiences. What perspective can you offer? Where have you been? Who have you interacted with?
I have lived in 6 different states and 1 other country.
I have lived near large communities of hispanics, blacks, whites, and arabs.
I have friends and family that are dirt poor and some that are well off.
I have had friends that are gay and friends that are trans.
I married a full blooded mexican man. He had nothing when I married him. I married for love.
His stepfather is from iraq. His half sisters are mexican and arabic. They are teaching my daughter to speak arabic and spanish.
Many of my aunts have MS. My mother is my one aunts caregiver. She pays her bills, schedules her doctors appointments and takes her to them, takes here for groceries, and handles her legal issues.
My grandfather had alzeimers and my whole family including me helped care for him.
I also shaved my head for saint baldricks.