Lace and Frills <3
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xKuroiTaimax
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Lol. I wouldn't have anywhere for you to stay, but I'd model them for you.
Yeah the photographer was kind of forceful. I felt weird and exposed on the floor and It took half an hour for her to get me to stop covering my chest with my arms but I like how some of the pictures turned out.
I show you these but I wouldn't even wear shorts bare-legged lol, you exclusive people.
Thankyou, and I'm glad you enjoy. I certainly feel a bit better about myself looking at a couple of them. One more for now.
Don't worry, it wasn't too rude. Not like some of the stuff about 'breaking a girl's back' or 'pounding five sluts' or other nonsense cock-talk in the 'Hot Chicks' thread and others like it. Thankyou for keeping it nice in here guys xx
EDIT: Sorry April, It was kind of last minute deciding. And she wanted me to go bra-less, I said no and the only one I took with me was pink so I had to add a pink armwarmer and a black one to detract from random pink...
No, I didn't make this outfit, but I'm working on a corset. The boning just arrived in the mail x
Yeah the photographer was kind of forceful. I felt weird and exposed on the floor and It took half an hour for her to get me to stop covering my chest with my arms but I like how some of the pictures turned out.
I show you these but I wouldn't even wear shorts bare-legged lol, you exclusive people.
Thankyou, and I'm glad you enjoy. I certainly feel a bit better about myself looking at a couple of them. One more for now.
Don't worry, it wasn't too rude. Not like some of the stuff about 'breaking a girl's back' or 'pounding five sluts' or other nonsense cock-talk in the 'Hot Chicks' thread and others like it. Thankyou for keeping it nice in here guys xx
EDIT: Sorry April, It was kind of last minute deciding. And she wanted me to go bra-less, I said no and the only one I took with me was pink so I had to add a pink armwarmer and a black one to detract from random pink...
No, I didn't make this outfit, but I'm working on a corset. The boning just arrived in the mail x
woodsmaneh!
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The Boning just arrived in the mail, is that kind of like mail order brides but just a one night stand, LOL
You know kX your just so different, it's kind of like living with Alice in Wonderland next door. The girl next door your not, that's a good thing, you kind of remind me of David Bowie in his early 70's, so full of colour and going in all directions at once, your like a beautiful garden, all the different colours, shapes and sizes to excite the sences, the tapestery you paint for us each night makes the world a more compelling place to be, thank you for being different and amaizing.
You know kX your just so different, it's kind of like living with Alice in Wonderland next door. The girl next door your not, that's a good thing, you kind of remind me of David Bowie in his early 70's, so full of colour and going in all directions at once, your like a beautiful garden, all the different colours, shapes and sizes to excite the sences, the tapestery you paint for us each night makes the world a more compelling place to be, thank you for being different and amaizing.
xKuroiTaimax
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My god, that was beautiful... Thankyou for such a wonderfully poetic description. I don't know what to say
Lol but this is the boning I'm talking about. The other kind.... I wish.
woodsmaneh!
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The snow is falling and the hot tub is calling, my happy place awaits, till the ether brings me back to you, puff puff puff, nudge nudge wink wink boo
I kill myself, I'm going to die laughing Blaaaa haaaa haaa
I kill myself, I'm going to die laughing Blaaaa haaaa haaa
CR500ROOST
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amazing......
woodsmaneh!
Well-Known Member
Don't trust him he's a perv he's got 69 in his name, my mom told me about people like you, run away, run away.....
SFguy
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eeh.. one upping me huh?? lol its cool my lady wouldnt like that n e ways.. lol and she wouldnt want my car its a deathtrap.. i barley even drive it.. hahha
SFguy
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to quote KAT WILLIAMS.. its called SELF esteem....lol urca if you dont think your pretty that is ok.. there are lots of other guys that still will think your pretty, and in that situation, they will probably buy you stuff, but be really ugly in return... hahah
Dizzle Frost
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Kuroi...oh Kuroi ... you got jus enuf snack on that ass....
yummy yumms yumms lol
yummy yumms yumms lol
HellaBlunts
Active Member
:mouth hanging open face:
The Cryptkeeper
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lol Anyways. The outfit is.... Interesting.
The Cryptkeeper
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LOL I know that song quite well living where I live.Listening to Jason Carroll Livin our love song
bblzs
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Bitches need to stop blaming all your problems on us. Stop tellin' a nigga,"You fucked up my self-esteem". Bitch it's called SELF-ESTEEM! It's esteem of your mothafuckin' self. How am I gonna fuck up how you feel about you simple bitch?
Just quoting! I LOVE Katt!
woodsmaneh!
Well-Known Member
Self Esteem is serious business! = Self-esteem is the value we place on ourselves
We need to step back a moment.........
Everyone looks for approval in one way or another and if you were fortunate to grow up in a loving and nurturing family you won't have self esteem issues or go looking for approval in all the wrong places. But! just about everyone has issues today brought on mostly by our society, how we look, talk, dress and even eat and the big one what we have! Aren't we all here looking for approval on RIU,
it is clear we have friends here who have issues and bulling people about it is just wrong, and so close to Christmas, the word compassion comes to mind.
Self-esteem is the value we place on ourselves. It is the feeling we have about all the things we see ourselves to be. It is the knowledge that we are lovable, we are capable, and we are unique. Good self-esteem means:
As a parent, you have the greatest influence in shaping your children's sense of self-worth; you are their first and most important teacher. Their self-esteem is further influenced as they develop relationships with other family members, school teachers, friends and other adults.
Love and acceptance
Showing children that they are loved and accepted simply because they exist is the first and most important step to building a healthy self-esteem. Children need to get the message that they are worthy of love (even if they behave badly sometimes) from the most important adults in their lives - their parents, You must remember to:
Children need to know that they are important. When they feel accepted and loved by the important people in their lives, they feel comfortable, safe and secure, and open to communication. If children feel respected and secure within a family, they will find it easier to make friendships outside the family. To help children develop that sense of belonging, you can:
Children must have their basic needs met if they are to feel safe and comfortable. A sense of security and safety allows them to take the next step: to try new things and to learn about themselves.
When children feel safe, they are less likely to be afraid of failure and more likely to risk trying again when they fail. Through this process, they are able to experience success. As their parent, you should try to:
A stable environment they can depend on provides children with a sense of security. It is important for children to learn that their actions have consequences. Knowing that you can be relied upon to be consistent and to give help when necessary helps children to think, "I can trust you, and I can trust myself." To build this kind of trust, you should:
Children will develop respect for themselves and for others if they learn that what they think, feel and do is important. If you put them down or call them demeaning names, your children will feel unworthy. Criticism or punishment which is too harsh will prevent children from developing self-confidence. By accepting your children's right to have feelings, you can help them learn to respect the feelings of others. If you teach your children healthy ways to express their feelings, they will learn to develop positive relationships. When dealing with your children, you should remember to:
We are all special. It is important for you to help your children discover their own special talents and qualities. Once they do identify what makes them special, they need to learn to value their own strengths. Remember to teach your children that feeling special does not mean feeling better than others; rather, it is a positive understanding of their own uniqueness. You should encourage children to:
It is extremely important to give children support and approval. Children who have faith and confidence in themselves and their abilities will be more likely to lead happy and productive adult lives. Teach your children to learn from their mistakes, to work towards a goal, and to have pride in their successes. You should:
There are many books written for teachers, health professionals and parents, that provide information and ideas on helping to build children's self-esteem. You can also contact a local community organization, such as the Canadian Mental Health Association, to find out about workshops and other programs available in your community.
We need to step back a moment.........
Everyone looks for approval in one way or another and if you were fortunate to grow up in a loving and nurturing family you won't have self esteem issues or go looking for approval in all the wrong places. But! just about everyone has issues today brought on mostly by our society, how we look, talk, dress and even eat and the big one what we have! Aren't we all here looking for approval on RIU,
it is clear we have friends here who have issues and bulling people about it is just wrong, and so close to Christmas, the word compassion comes to mind.
Self-esteem is the value we place on ourselves. It is the feeling we have about all the things we see ourselves to be. It is the knowledge that we are lovable, we are capable, and we are unique. Good self-esteem means:
- having a healthy view of yourself,
- having a quiet sense of self-worth,
- having a positive outlook,
- feeling satisfied with yourself most of the time,
- setting realistic goals.
As a parent, you have the greatest influence in shaping your children's sense of self-worth; you are their first and most important teacher. Their self-esteem is further influenced as they develop relationships with other family members, school teachers, friends and other adults.
Love and acceptance
Showing children that they are loved and accepted simply because they exist is the first and most important step to building a healthy self-esteem. Children need to get the message that they are worthy of love (even if they behave badly sometimes) from the most important adults in their lives - their parents, You must remember to:
- give love with no strings attached,
- show love and acceptance through your daily expressions of affection, care and concern,
- spend time together - play, work and relax together,
- show that you feel good about them by hugging them,
- tell them often, "I like what you did/said" and "I love you."
Children need to know that they are important. When they feel accepted and loved by the important people in their lives, they feel comfortable, safe and secure, and open to communication. If children feel respected and secure within a family, they will find it easier to make friendships outside the family. To help children develop that sense of belonging, you can:
- help them build valuable family and community relationships,
- encourage pride in their family's ethnic background and heritage,
- keep reminders of family events and family history around the home (photograph albums, home videos, etc.).
Children must have their basic needs met if they are to feel safe and comfortable. A sense of security and safety allows them to take the next step: to try new things and to learn about themselves.
When children feel safe, they are less likely to be afraid of failure and more likely to risk trying again when they fail. Through this process, they are able to experience success. As their parent, you should try to:
- provide a safe physical environment,
- set and enforce clear rules and limits,
- be realistic in your expectations,
- encourage them to say "No" to negative pressures.
A stable environment they can depend on provides children with a sense of security. It is important for children to learn that their actions have consequences. Knowing that you can be relied upon to be consistent and to give help when necessary helps children to think, "I can trust you, and I can trust myself." To build this kind of trust, you should:
- be consistent so they know what to expect,
- be sure your verbal and non-verbal messages agree,
- be honest about your feelings to yourself and to the children,
- treat each child fairly.
Children will develop respect for themselves and for others if they learn that what they think, feel and do is important. If you put them down or call them demeaning names, your children will feel unworthy. Criticism or punishment which is too harsh will prevent children from developing self-confidence. By accepting your children's right to have feelings, you can help them learn to respect the feelings of others. If you teach your children healthy ways to express their feelings, they will learn to develop positive relationships. When dealing with your children, you should remember to:
- accept what they are feeling even if it is different from your own feelings,
- show respect for their feelings, beliefs, actions and individuality by listening with sincere interest,
- make "I feel" or "I believe", rather than "You are", statements when you do have to tell children what they are doing is wrong.
We are all special. It is important for you to help your children discover their own special talents and qualities. Once they do identify what makes them special, they need to learn to value their own strengths. Remember to teach your children that feeling special does not mean feeling better than others; rather, it is a positive understanding of their own uniqueness. You should encourage children to:
- value their uniqueness,
- be optimistic,
- have a cheerful attitude (remember to set a good example),
- try things their own way,
- understand that trying your best is more important than winning.
It is extremely important to give children support and approval. Children who have faith and confidence in themselves and their abilities will be more likely to lead happy and productive adult lives. Teach your children to learn from their mistakes, to work towards a goal, and to have pride in their successes. You should:
- encourage them to face challenges and take risks,
- teach them to make decisions and to set goals,
- express faith and confidence in them and their capabilities,
- provide opportunities for them to take responsibility for their actions,
- help them recognize that there are things they must accept and things they can choose to change,
- give them an opportunity to succeed.
There are many books written for teachers, health professionals and parents, that provide information and ideas on helping to build children's self-esteem. You can also contact a local community organization, such as the Canadian Mental Health Association, to find out about workshops and other programs available in your community.
Matt Rize
Hashmaster
if 18 year old girls all had self esteem, then dirt bag older guys who cradle rob would have no victims
Kuroi --- lawd a mercy!
Urca
Well-Known Member
but what if we naturally like older guys?
Seriously, every guy Ive ever "talked to", and had any kind of experience with (including sexual and non sexual life experience) has been at least 4 years older, but lately it seems the best age gap has been 5 or 6 years older.
Better with age. They look and act like men instead of little boys
Seriously, every guy Ive ever "talked to", and had any kind of experience with (including sexual and non sexual life experience) has been at least 4 years older, but lately it seems the best age gap has been 5 or 6 years older.
Better with age. They look and act like men instead of little boys
Matt Rize
Hashmaster
watch out for those "men" who date "girls" instead of "women"... think about it from the other side.
ps
every girl with daddy issues (of which there are many) "naturally likes" older men, just sayin',