I know lots who have been busted. Maybe ten or more.
Every single one of them was fucked by someone they knew who turned them in or worse yet a girlfriend or ex girlfriend.
Don't tell anyone. Don't think family is safe. NEVER let any girl you fuck know anything.
If nobody but you ever knows and you are safe in other ways odds are you can grow any amount for a lifetime and never worry.
(no smell or light leaks, no throwing away growing supplies or stems etc in your own trash, no cops coming to your house for fights or any other reason ever)