Life is great, it took me some 40 plus years to fiqure out how to enjoy life.
Would not change anything that happened in my life because it got me where I am today.
Life is made to be enjoyed, there are a lot of pitfalls outthere just waiting to pull you down.
The trick is only picking up the good stuff, let the bad stuff slide off. Easy to say, hard to do, nobody can do it perfectly, but you can strive to do better.
I realize that when you get pulled down, it can be dam hard to break free of it, but dont give up.