life sucks i will die soon im shure

olylifter420 · Jul 18, 2012

did he repost his new feelings?

I brought real life cause that is where it counts...

the advice on here is very different then the one he could get if he went to a mental doctor...

at least I would feel better knowing the person consulting me has a doctorate in med or a PH.D in psyc...

Hepheastus420 said:
I didn't mention real life. I said he just needed some attention. He got it by expressing himself here.

If online forums helps him in his issues, fuck it, let him complain all he wants. The advice he gets from people here is no different from advice he gets from people at home.

And I'd say alot of the advice here is good. They told him it's OK that he's feeling this way and that they understand where he's coming from, then they recommended getting help from a professional. IMO, that's about as good as advice gets from a person IRL.

You guys can say he just wants attention, but so what? It helped him right? I'm glad it did.

Jimmyjonestoo · Jul 18, 2012

cannabineer said:
Where could I find one such? cn

A professional ?? Yellow pages. There are places where u can get counseling for next to free if not free. Look into netcare or caresoursr they will make sure one gets the help that's needed.

olylifter420 · Jul 18, 2012

RIU is where come to for my financial help... i will be making a thread with all my info on it and see who will help me the most...

cannabineer · Jul 18, 2012

Jimmyjonestoo said:
A professional ?? Yellow pages. There are places where u can get counseling for next to free if not free. Look into netcare or caresoursr they will make sure one gets the help that's needed.

No. A professional ... to assist. cn

olylifter420 · Jul 18, 2012

if you are looking for assists, steve nash does a great job

purklize · Jul 18, 2012

Whether you are suicidal or not, you all should read this article.

http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/

Suicide is not chosen; it happens when pain exceeds resources for coping with pain.

Everything you've been taught about how to handle suicidal people (denying them the attention they're "seeking," that those who talk about it don't do it, that it's selfish, that they need a swift kick in the butt for being a wimp because their problems aren't bad...) is WRONG. I wish I had read this earlier as I handled a suicidal friend according to the popular misconceptions and it ended with her on a ventilator. I made it worse. Please read this so you don't make the same mistake with those close to you.

olylifter420 · Jul 18, 2012

thats why you should keep the pills in the medicine cupboard..

Hepheastus420 · Jul 18, 2012

olylifter420 said:
did he repost his new feelings?

I brought real life cause that is where it counts...

the advice on here is very different then the one he could get if he went to a mental doctor...

at least I would feel better knowing the person consulting me has a doctorate in med or a PH.D in psyc...

Yes he reposted his feelings. He said "you guys don't know how much this (advice) means to me" (or something like that). He was also surprised that so many strangers would take the time to help him out.

IRL, if he doesn't have the money to talk to a doctor, he can't talk to a doctor. I'm talking about every day people here. Who (IRL) would he talk to that won't charge him and would give better advice than what was given here?

All I'm saying is the advice here was helpful to him, nothing wrong with that.

And alot of the people here agree with you when you say he should seek professional help. Yet another good example of how online advice helped him.

Jimmyjonestoo · Jul 18, 2012

Hepheastus420 said:
Read the post I gave oly..

Talking about his problems here gave him some good advice. He feels better for talking about it with us and we also recommended professional help. I say all in all, this thread was a good thing for him.

He hasn't responded in a while we don't know if it helped or not.

Hepheastus420 · Jul 18, 2012

Jimmyjonestoo said:
He hasn't responded in a while we don't know if it helped or not.

He said it helped on the first page (I go by 40 posts per page).

TheChosen · Jul 18, 2012

Hepheastus420 said:
Dude, the guy DOES need some attention, so the fuck what?

Go suck a dick.

It's lame.

Aww are you getting lonely? Maybe you two losers can be butt buddies.

Hepheastus420 said:
So you're a dumbass that has too much pride to ask for help? Get over yourself and realize that it's ok for people to complain or ask for help dipshit.

I would rather be dumb and self sufficient than smart and dependent on others (let alone people on riu) to passify a need for being coddled.

olylifter420 · Jul 18, 2012

do you know how much it means to him, really?

and I can understand what you write without having to put things in parenthesis.

im hoping it will

and there is a free suicide hotline(no need for $)... the 1-800(free of charge) numbers that are free

Hepheastus420 said:
Yes he reposted his feelings. He said "you guys don't know how much this (advice) means to me" (or something like that). He was also surprised that so many strangers would take the time to help him out.

IRL, if he doesn't have the money to talk to a doctor, he can't talk to a doctor. I'm talking about every day people here. Who (IRL) would he talk to that won't charge him and would give better advice than what was given here?

All I'm saying is the advice here was helpful to him, nothing wrong with that.

And alot of the people here agree with you when you say he should seek professional help. Yet another good example of how online advice helped him.

Hepheastus420 · Jul 18, 2012

TheChosen said:
It's lame.

Aww are you getting lonely? Maybe you two losers can be butt buddies.

I would rather be dumb and self sufficient than smart and dependent on others (let alone people on riu) to passify a need for being coddled.

lol.. That's an original insult.. Very good.

Exactly why I called you a dumbass. You wouldn't be able to swallow your stupid pride in order to ask for help. That's just stupid.

Hepheastus420 · Jul 18, 2012

olylifter420 said:
do you know how much it means to him, really?

and I can understand what you write without having to put things in parenthesis.

im hoping it will

and there is a free suicide hotline(no need for $)... the 1-800(free of charge) numbers that are free

Why call other random people from a suicide hotline when he can talk to people that aren't trained to treat him like a crazy person here?

Jimmyjonestoo · Jul 18, 2012

If he feels this way bit doesn't want to die he will check himself in and get some FREE help. If he doesn't check himself in then he's either an attention whore or wants to die. If that's the case he can't be helped on either aspect.

olylifter420 · Jul 18, 2012

you said it best, TRAINED...

have you called and seen how they treat you on there?

Hepheastus420 said:
Why call other random people from a suicide hotline when he can talk to people that aren't trained to treat him like a crazy person here?

Jimmyjonestoo · Jul 18, 2012

Hopefully he's there now for a fun filled three day assessment.

Hepheastus420 · Jul 18, 2012

Jimmyjonestoo said:
If he feels this way bit doesn't want to die he will check himself in and get some FREE help. If he doesn't check himself in then he's either an attention whore or wants to die. If that's the case he can't be helped on either aspect.

You're wrong. He said it helped him..

I'm just saying that talking it out here isn't a bad thing. The chosen was making it sound horrible.. Why?

Aside from this thread not being bad for OP, he should also seek professional help. Why can't he talk it out here and get professional help?

Hepheastus420 · Jul 18, 2012

olylifter420 said:
you said it best, TRAINED...

have you called and seen how they treat you on there?

Yeah you got me there. They're trained. But how would you feel if you wanted to talk out your feelings without the other person giving dishonest opinions just because they have to?

olylifter420 · Jul 18, 2012

I would rather go to someone that is trained specifically for the needs i have...

also, have you called to those hotlines and actually talked to someone on the other end to make the claim you are making about it.?

Hepheastus420 said:
Yeah you got me there. They're trained. But how would you feel if you wanted to talk out your feelings without the other person giving dishonest opinions just because they have to?

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