Sorry for the long question, but make sure to answer the second question at the end!
I asked this the other day but thought I should go into a bit more detail.
I'm 29, single, no kids and never married. I work full time, get benefits and pay my own bills, though I do have a male roommate.
I work hard at not looking like a stoner. I don't wear cheech & Chong shirts or a marijuana leaf hat/bracelet. I maintain a clean appearance, clean car and normal lifestyle. Think Dexter, instead I'm smoking pot haha.
I struggle with dating because I do share early on that I smoke weed. I don't lie to women, and I won't sneak around. But my smoking makes it difficult to date. The last girl I dated (25) said she can't date someone who smokes because her: "I could lose my job." Me: "Bitch you're a cashier at Walgreens." Okay I didn't say that! But I thought it!
Any advice? At my age, women are looking to get married and have kids. I'm all for that too. But why not live it up while you can? I accept that when I start having children I should stop, but that's not any time soon.
Any advice?
On a side note, I have 20ish clones in red solo cups. I'm transferring t 2 gallon containers for a soil SoG. Would anyone be interested in seeing the difference between using fox farm nutrients (the trio and open sesame, cha Ching and beasty blooms) and one that gets only water?
You are a desperate bastard aren't you! Posting the same shit in 2 sections!
Well then. Don't put yourself above the lady - no matter what she does for work! You could miss out on "the one" real easy!
As far as living it up? There are girls who feel the same way but, I might be wary of these as they may be taking,
you for the ride...Maybe that's not a bad thing if you don't care either. Thing is, in real life, men tend to "fall" for one of these, then are the one's hurt in the end, cause she don't care! I have too many friends this happened to and I'm tired of hearing about "could'a, would'a, shoulda! Life's longer then you think - take your time!
I dated my wife, starting in college. We each had things we wanted to do or were doing. We did
tons of "living" before we got married and had kids! We skied the world! Belong to an MC and had killer jobs......at 58 and closing in on 59, with the boys heading off for years 2 and 1 in college - This time they intend to not return.....
I regret nothing,
yet, sometimes I wish I had started the family thing earlier.....I know it's the middle age crisis thing talking but, it's still a strong feeling.
So, there it is! Do it now and have later with your spouse or be young and wild and do it now, and think about it later......Never let your smoking get in the way of life - it's part of it! You have time, find a girl like that......you two should have the same smoking habits or her a bit less then you. I have friends who bitch about the others consumption habits (non stop)......Basically......find a female with a near mirror image. Interests, hobbies, life choices......like I said, YOU HAVE TIME - be patient.....