I was using the tap water with out PHing it, and now after my below test, I think I found the problem I hope.. It was all PH. I knew I was watering it ok, my friend just waters a little bit each day like a cup a day, my method was a half gallon a week and let the water fall in the catch tray a bit and let the plant suck it up.. I would not add more water but would allow it to enter the catch tray. My friend said that is to much , he used a cup but waters everyday.. I think I have the water ok at once every 7 days because the soil is still kind of moist an inch down. But the PH I think was the issue.
New Test PH SOIL TEST
Tap Water b4: 7.0 dark green
Bucket Water b4: 7.4 light blue
Tap Test
After first run through soil: 6.0 or lower Yellow
Bucket Test
After first run off drops 6.6 or 6.5 light green