I really don't think he's 13 dude. I honestly don't think he gets the "kid" excuse.
There was this dude in my dorm 9 years ago that used to get irate when he could hear anyone having sex in their dorm room for more than 15 minutes. It wasn't that he was getting pissed off that was the issue, it's that he had a very wrong / skewed concept of what sex was. I compare bartow to Mr Gore (leak!) in that the reason his outburst is unjustified because he has 0 concept of what he's asking, or in the sex metaphor, what he was complaining about. Gore was 26. bartow is probably very similarly in his mid twenties early 30's and similarly incredibly lonely.