it isn't just some random dude, he knows my parents. I remeber helping him move one time, he even let me drive his BMW. he didn't offer shit back then either. he just a real cheap bastard period.
on the flip side I've called up super old contacts, and they didn't give a shit that I havn't talked to them in years, to them its like if you going in with us that just means a bigger bag I left right after I hooked up and didn't smoke anything with them so =P
and btw when he gave it to me he was on his way cali, on a roadtrip