wish i could help you, i've been watching to see what people say, because i've been having problems myself...
if you want more of a response, why don't you put a link at the bottom of your signature saying something like "please help me with this problem and i'll be your best friend forever", and then contribute useful/positive things to a bunch of other people's posts, especially people that are knowledgeable and have been around for a long time on this site... maybe someone who wants to help will take notice then... there are just so many posts on this site, that it seems like as soon as we post something, 10 people come and post stuff and our post is pushed way down the list, out of view of potential advice givers...
my fault, if you've already tried something like that- just tryin to be helpful, and in the mean time, keep your spirits up and keep going through the faq- good luck!