wow it is a bummer that plant turned out to be male,it can be hard to take after putting so much time into it,i think for most people it might take a time or 2 to get everything right,i know it did me,i would brag on nervana for seed.(feminized seeds) they have a mystic blue strain that is low on oder and u might consider growing shorter plants to, i remember there is one strain that dont need a ton of light for it to veg and flower,i like the shorter strains, i grow in a box myself,and i am only useing cfl's the girls have been on 12/12 since germinating,and they r looking good,got tons of white hairs sticking out from everywhere,and i am very excited about that,oh and dont worry about the lower leaves the plant sheds them as they get older,oh and try to relax good luck sunybrd