So you are sticking with sociopath, cool.
You expect us to believe that you kept up with members names whenever someone joined, when the group formed, when it disbanded, when it formed again, who rejoined, when it disbanded again, when it formed yet another time and who joined for the 3rd time all while not being a member and not receiving email updates. You just knew because you kept such a sharp eye on it. Cool story.
If I'm ruining your party, just shoot me a PM and ask me to stop and I will, but as it stands, you can't really expect anyone to believe this.