Voting for the candidate you want to win is not wasting a vote if they don't win. IF you vote Romney and he loses, did you waste your time? I voted for Gary Johnson myself even though I don't agree with him on many issues. I just wanted to see more choices on our ballots. I don't like Obama for many reasons and I hate Mitt Romney.
Nothing got fucked up. Two wolves against one sheep voted on dinner. Try calling your R rep and complain you didn't get an enthusiastic hand job while filling out your TANF form. Then say the same to your D rep. Notice the total 180.