Only if u have experience!

sarah22

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i think that as long as you're safe and happy, you should just do what you want. now, in the future this could potentially be an issue if you want to settle down and just be with 1 woman. Your outlook on women may make it hard to find a meaningful relationship. but if you're happy just hooking up with different women without a connection to them...then just have fun :) i dont think that its too much of a problem at all unless its making your life more difficult or making you unhappy.
 

Tyler Durden 77

Active Member
shut the fuck up and figure it out asshole

what, is this just another way to exploit your addiction? grow up and shut up.

WOW? this was a pleasent forum??? not exploiting my prob.... jus dont wanna spend money on counseling? too much! RIU is full of mostly intelegent people ,( idiots cant grow MJ) and dont have many friends, as im always working or u know! lol..... but dont be mad cuz ur dont get puss! and dont be mad cuz u lack the vocabulary to express urself! in the real world i really would crush U!!!!! 6'0 225 6% body fat and i BOX for the last 6 years! so go head talk shit behind ur computer! lil man! lwatch for more of my exploits..... maybe u can jerk of to one since u aint had pussy since it had u! BTW tell ur mother to hurry up and bring my dirty laundry over!
 

Tyler Durden 77

Active Member
2-3 girls a week isn't anything great. No you don't have a problem - You are getting as much ass as any decent looking guy that gives effort.

2-3 new pussy! women i have never met b4!!!!!! no i dont believe every good looking guy gets this much! not consistently??? NOt unless ur famous or sumthin???

I dont give any effort.... it jus falls in my lap! u should hear the disrespect i give women.....
 

Tyler Durden 77

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i think that as long as you're safe and happy, you should just do what you want. now, in the future this could potentially be an issue if you want to settle down and just be with 1 woman. Your outlook on women may make it hard to find a meaningful relationship. but if you're happy just hooking up with different women without a connection to them...then just have fun :) i dont think that its too much of a problem at all unless its making your life more difficult or making you unhappy.

well c thats the real prob.... i dont think i can ever have a serious relationship.....im 32 and have never NOT cheated......had a GF since kindegarten..... loved porn since i was 11........(garage is where my dad left his mags!)..... i can pull a hatrick in one day and still jerk off b4 bed????( hatrick = 3 girls 1day )...... i love sex the female body, i cant get enough...... i want a gf..... jus cant stay loyal???? i get bored..... want the NEW PUSS!!!! want something diff..... same pole same hole gets old!!!!!! LIKE I SAID I THINK I NEED HELP! BUT I ONLY NEED HELP CUZ WOMEN SAY I DO! had a gf that liked puss too! we would fuck her friends, and others..... but even that got boring! I NEED NEW!!!! people tell me this is a prob.... that i can never have a gf because of this prob... and what am i gonna do???? pay a shrink to tell me sumthin i already know????? why???

it does make me unhappy sometimes.... feel like that all i got???? but when im in a relationship, and im not gettin it im unhappy too???? VICIOUS FUCKIN CIRCLE!
 

Tyler Durden 77

Active Member
then get a chick thats into swinging
BEEN there DONE that!!!!! it aint nuthin i aint never done!!!!!

if WILT CHAMBERLAIN with his 45000 women had a million dollar dick....mines worth atleast a hundred grand!!!!


Thats why im sayin i dont know what to do! i am a DEMON!!! and i dont know what to do know that i have created this gollum within myself! is there some medication i can take for this??

okay thnx!!! but im out. This was the wrong place to ask this ques! im jus high and though id put it out there??? But not ONCE have i heard anyone say they have had or have any type of similar experiences...... I do appreciate the willingness to contribute, so again THANK U!..... but this isnt the response i was looking for. Probubly my fault though. PEACE AND GOOD WILL TO ALL!
 

DTR

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i dont get why yould want to if the girls go so crazy for you become a pornstar only thing id be afraid of is getting a std or banging someeones wife then getting shot
 
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PadawanBater

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Howbout try fucking less? I mean if it's a serious problem, the solution is to stop doing it, or do it less.

You can't be that weak to just say "yes" every single time some new chick wants some cock. Have some standards man, respect yourself.

Once you respect yourself, you'll be able to respect women, and there are plenty of respectable ladies out there worth committing to, you just have to search for em.
 

......

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hahaha man I cant help you but I had a fuckin great time at class tonight.
I fucked this girl I been trying to get with for the past 4 classes in the bathroom of the school lolI got some motivation to go to these now.
The best part of it was she gave her boyfriend a big kiss when he came to pick her up me and my man started cracking up so fucking hard I know im gonna have to lay this asshole out.
 

Tyler Durden 77

Active Member
Howbout try fucking less? I mean if it's a serious problem, the solution is to stop doing it, or do it less.

You can't be that weak to just say "yes" every single time some new chick wants some cock. Have some standards man, respect yourself.

Once you respect yourself, you'll be able to respect women, and there are plenty of respectable ladies out there worth committing to, you just have to search for em.

:clap: DECENT....... yea i know whatursayin...... I DO RESOECT MYSELF!!!! gotta keep me number 1! if u dont who will? Dont jus bang every chic! really dont think i could! Or want to!!!!! i have STANDARDS! i might bang a 7 every now and again i wont lie but man i bang hot chics!!!! How do u say know to that?! MODELS, ACTRESSES, and WANABEE's!!!!!! my dick want that shit!!!!! how do u say no with a fucking LOG in ur pants?!!!
i dunno............. really is a prob.........want to stop???? kinda.....
 

Tyler Durden 77

Active Member
i dont get why yould want to if the girls go so crazy for you become a pornstar only thing id be afraid of is getting a std or banging someeones wife then getting shot
BEEN THERE DONE THAT! porn is real work for those who dont know...... cut cut cut thats all u hear and u gotta keep ur dick up too!!!! thinks its easy? NOPE not with 6 other guys in the room 2 with cameras, one jerking off over in the corner, and the fuckin pornstar BITCH had a pussy the size of a fuckin house!!!! u took viagra..... but all this fuckin distraction coupled with the fact that the pussy feels like a fuckin hallway! and everyones watchin u........ nah man u keep that!

hahaha man I cant help you but I had a fuckin great time at class tonight.
I fucked this girl I been trying to get with for the past 4 classes in the bathroom of the school lolI got some motivation to go to these now.
The best part of it was she gave her boyfriend a big kiss when he came to pick her up me and my man started cracking up so fucking hard I know im gonna have to lay this asshole out.


LOLZ......LMFAO.... been there too! same shit at the club in the bathroom.... bitch came out on the dace floor kissed her dude after eatin my babies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i love that shit....nasty bitches make my dick hard!:fire:
 
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PadawanBater

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You just say no man, you let these chicks know you have a bit of a problem. The ones that still push it are hoes, distance yourself from those types of bitches.

The first step is acknowledgment of the problem, and if you're serious about getting control of it then you have to take some extreme measures. Just don't even put yourself in the position for a chick to "force" herself into your pants.
 

doowmd

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well c thats the real prob.... i dont think i can ever have a serious relationship.....im 32 and have never NOT cheated......had a GF since kindegarten..... loved porn since i was 11........(garage is where my dad left his mags!)..... i can pull a hatrick in one day and still jerk off b4 bed????( hatrick = 3 girls 1day )...... i love sex the female body, i cant get enough...... i want a gf..... jus cant stay loyal???? i get bored..... want the NEW PUSS!!!! want something diff..... same pole same hole gets old!!!!!! LIKE I SAID I THINK I NEED HELP! BUT I ONLY NEED HELP CUZ WOMEN SAY I DO! had a gf that liked puss too! we would fuck her friends, and others..... but even that got boring! I NEED NEW!!!! people tell me this is a prob.... that i can never have a gf because of this prob... and what am i gonna do???? pay a shrink to tell me sumthin i already know????? why???

it does make me unhappy sometimes.... feel like that all i got???? but when im in a relationship, and im not gettin it im unhappy too???? VICIOUS FUCKIN CIRCLE!



ok....here goes. it's like this......if u really wanna change this behavior.......if u really want to do something about this....then DO IT!!!!! u know, maybe it's where ur meeting these women at! whenever i went to a bar...i was same as u......fuck em in the bathroom, car, beside the building whatever....but that was because thats wat i EXPECTED!! who expects to go out and find a decent girl at a bar/club? when someone goes out they're looking to hook up. its hard to have a serious relationship w/ someone u banged 2 hr.s after meeting. and that's usually what happens when ppl 'meet' at a club. so if your starting to feel like you'd like something a little deeper......a relationship.....then maybe you need to start meeting women at places other than the club. listen i believe ya when you say you've had all those women...what i don't believe is that you met very many of em anywhere other than a club or bar. so first things first...you need a change of location when it comes to meeting women. secondly....if you want a meaningful relationship you've got to start jacking more! i mean its just that simple!!! try youporndotcom. best free porn site on the net. check it out. and i know...jacking gets old, but are you trying to change or not? if so then this'll get the job done when you've got an itch that needs scratching, while your trying to develop a REAL relationship. try asking a girl at the beach out on a date, instead of asking for head! lol
because, last but not least, all girls are whores as much as all men are dogs. now, i'm just keeping it real here. they like to fuck just like we do. whats so wrong w/ that? and yea some of em ARE pieces of trash that are as easy as they are loose....but that's the ones you can spot across the room cause their titties are hanging out the top of their shirt. this aint rocket science. whores are easy to spot...as i'm sure you know. just steer clear of em when ur ready to settle down.
now if none of this hits home.........if, after reading all that you still don't know what to do about your problem, may i suggest that u do spring for a therapist for some one-on-one counseling. therapists, as opposed to psychologists, aren't as expensive as you think. some even have a sliding pay scale based on your income. but it all boils down to how serious you think this 'problem' is and what your willing to do to fix it. you've already come halfway....admitting that there's a problem...now comes the hard part.....fixing it. you can do it. just takes motivation and determination. are you motivated to fix this? if so....what's the motivation? y do you want to quit fucking so many? (i think u answered that above) and secondly.....do you have enuff will power to stop doing something that brings you pleasure? if u said yes to that 2nd question then prove it! show yourself that your in control and not the pleasure center of your brain! try declining the next skeezer who offers you a piece. see how that makes ya feel. see how it feels to be in control of yourself, not some tramp who walks up offering head! lmao!!! which btw should send up like a million red flags to STAY AWAY!!! i mean any slut that comes up and offers to suck my dick.....well it'd probably be a safe bet that she ALREADY has a communicable std that she don't mind sharing, so common sense would tell me i'd better not put my dick ANYWHERE NEAR HER!!!! LMFAO!!!! CONDOMS BREAK! and i don't know anybody who wears one while getting head.(i'm sure some do, but those are the minority) but anyway, i'll go for now. peace.

i hope any of that helped out man. and if not, then like i say, quit scrimping and pay for a couple of therapy sessions. just shop around for the best price.:joint:
 

fininho

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One Love man, If you want to have sex, you keep doing what you do, If you never get bored, lucky you..
If you want love, in my opinion much better than just sex, then you should find some girl worthy first, not those bitches you fuck hehe
 
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Priscilla420

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well c thats the real prob.... i dont think i can ever have a serious relationship.....im 32 and have never NOT cheated......had a GF since kindegarten..... loved porn since i was 11........(garage is where my dad left his mags!)..... i can pull a hatrick in one day and still jerk off b4 bed????( hatrick = 3 girls 1day )...... i love sex the female body, i cant get enough...... i want a gf..... jus cant stay loyal???? i get bored..... want the NEW PUSS!!!! want something diff..... same pole same hole gets old!!!!!! LIKE I SAID I THINK I NEED HELP! BUT I ONLY NEED HELP CUZ WOMEN SAY I DO! had a gf that liked puss too! we would fuck her friends, and others..... but even that got boring! I NEED NEW!!!! people tell me this is a prob.... that i can never have a gf because of this prob... and what am i gonna do???? pay a shrink to tell me sumthin i already know????? why???

it does make me unhappy sometimes.... feel like that all i got???? but when im in a relationship, and im not gettin it im unhappy too???? VICIOUS FUCKIN CIRCLE!


Yeah, it does seem like you have a bit of a problem. Like a sex addiction of some sort..? Maybe you should see a shrink. There's more to life than the way you're living.. much more.
 

sarah22

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you have to make some decisions. you have to decide for yourself whether you want to be in a relationship, or whether you want to be single and having fun. if you decide that you 100% want to have a relationship, then you need to work on the urges you get to cheat and be with other women. you *can* overcome this. its something that can be considered a self-destructive behaviour. i dealt with self destructive behaviour, just in a different form but the treatment is relatively the same. you need to find other ways of dealing with the urges aside from giving into them.

i used to self harm...ie cut myself (sorry, i dont mean to bring the mood down or anything, but the urges for what i had are just as strong as the urge to have sex) and i managed to stop. cutting was an addiction, just like sex can be. you need to find other ways of relieving yourself from these urges without giving into them. so say you're in a relationship with someone, and you meet another girl that is coming on to you and that you find attractive. you want to remain faithful to the person you're with, so you have to find another way to tolerate the urge to be with a new random person. it will be distressful to not give in, but you can learn different strategies for dealing with distress. you can distract yourself with other things, you can find other ways to soothe yourself. this is the stuff i learned in my therapy program. and who knows, maybe you will need therapy in order to get passed this...therapy isnt so bad. i was in a group called DBT or Dialectical Behavioural Therapy. and it was great. it wasnt like group therapy on tv...this was more or less like a class to teach you skills for dealing with distress and problem behaviours. its got a really high success rate too.

if you want any more information, just let me know, i have an entire binder full of lessons from my therapy program :D lol
 

drumbum3218

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was reading this post, and i can relate. My 2 cents + some, if it becomes a problem then address the problem before it grows out of control. Since it seems like its bothering you/your conscience, then maybe its time for change. You simply have to WANT it, and work at it. Like anything you enjoy and also want to quit, set a goal, its ok to slip up now and then, but keep the goal in mind. I feel like I been in ur shoes before with the whole "am I addicted to sex"? Mark twain said it best, "too much of anything is bad...cept good whiskey." Its true, except the whiskey part which's a joke. Too much frickin water, can kill ya. Doubtful you will die from 2 much fuxing, but its ur life, just how do u want to spend ur energy? If you turn off (or at least down) that over powering sex drive, you will find more productive ways to expend your energy, of mind and body. Personally, sex is one of those things that just leaves me wanting more and more. By closing that door, many other windows may open 4 u. And if you really want to quit, stay away from places that spark your sexual apetite. Recovering alcoholics dont hang out in bars if they want sobriety right? As a male, I found I am happier when i am exhausted, especially from exercise. Pursue and exhaust other aspects of your life and u wont have as much energy left to compel towards getting some boom boom in the zoom zoom.
 

tnrtinr

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2-3 new pussy! women i have never met b4!!!!!! no i dont believe every good looking guy gets this much! not consistently??? NOt unless ur famous or sumthin???

I dont give any effort.... it jus falls in my lap! u should hear the disrespect i give women.....
Judging women as a whole by your interactions with a small sub-section of the population known as bar-flys is asinine. Your thought that "chics r whores in sum fashion or another" is a childish assessment. People do have HEALTHY sexual relationships where sex isn't a reward / payback for the man - but rather something that is enjoyed by both partners. You might truly understand one day. I have a feeling it's going to be a while.

Never went to college? You're not swinging a big dick; 2-3 girls a week is EASILY obtainable for anyone that desires it - with MINIMAL effort. You don't even have to be Adonis. It all comes down to your standards. I'd love to see the quality of women you are getting (especially if that is you in your avatar).

Although you seem to think it is an accomplishment to nail girls in your car, empty room, or in a filthy club bathroom; it's really not impressive. Have you ever heard "the hunt is better than the kill?" I'll affirm that - It is. Falling into a gaping vagina that has been pumped by every other dirt bag in a 50 mile radius she has met the first night; pales in comparison to satisfaction of snagging some quality beaver that is NOT so eager.

The fact that you seek sexual satisfaction from different companions 2-3 times a week; (anywhere you can get it) clearly shows how empty those sexual encounters are. Surely at some point (just by sampling so many women) you would find someone that you are actually attracted to on a higher level.

Simply put. The reason that behavior like yours CAN turn into sexual addiction is because the law of diminishing returns. As you have more casual encounters they fill your need for sexual intimacy less and less each subsequent time. This forces you to NEED more and more sexual encounters to fill your BASIC sexual needs. This turns to sexual addiction because you begin to long for satisfaction that you cannot satiate. Before you know it you will do anything to ejaculate. Your brain will think that you can fill this void with increased frequency. It cannot comprehend that frequency is not the answer because eventually you may get very little to no sexual gratification upon ejaculation. Quality is the ONLY answer. It is the only way to fill the void. Why do you think people settle down? It is more fulfilling to have an intimate relationship with someone than nailing a filthy whore in a filthy bathroom. ;)

Which sounds a lot like:
well c thats the real prob.... i dont think i can ever have a serious relationship.....im 32 and have never NOT cheated......had a GF since kindegarten..... loved porn since i was 11........(garage is where my dad left his mags!)..... i can pull a hatrick in one day and still jerk off b4 bed????( hatrick = 3 girls 1day )...... i love sex the female body, i cant get enough...... i want a gf..... jus cant stay loyal???? i get bored..... want the NEW PUSS!!!! want something diff..... same pole same hole gets old!!!!!! LIKE I SAID I THINK I NEED HELP! BUT I ONLY NEED HELP CUZ WOMEN SAY I DO! had a gf that liked puss too! we would fuck her friends, and others..... but even that got boring! I NEED NEW!!!! people tell me this is a prob.... that i can never have a gf because of this prob... and what am i gonna do???? pay a shrink to tell me sumthin i already know????? why???

it does make me unhappy sometimes.... feel like that all i got???? but when im in a relationship, and im not gettin it im unhappy too???? VICIOUS FUCKIN CIRCLE!

Congrats - you discovered the oldest trick in the book. "treat girls like dirt; and they will stick to you like mud."
 
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Priscilla420

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Judging women as a whole by your interactions with a small sub-section of the population known as bar-flys is asinine. Your thought that "chics r whores in sum fashion or another" is a childish assessment. People do have HEALTHY sexual relationships where sex isn't a reward / payback for the man - but rather something that is enjoyed by both partners. You might truly understand one day. I have a feeling it's going to be a while.

Never went to college? You're not swinging a big dick; 2-3 girls a week is EASILY obtainable for anyone that desires it - with MINIMAL effort. You don't even have to be Adonis. It all comes down to your standards. I'd love to see the quality of women you are getting (especially if that is you in your avatar).

Although you seem to think it is an accomplishment to nail girls in your car, empty room, or in a filthy club bathroom; it's really not impressive. Have you ever heard "the hunt is better than the kill?" I'll affirm that - It is. Falling into a gaping vagina that has been pumped by every other dirt bag in a 50 mile radius she has met the first night; pales in comparison to satisfaction of snagging some quality beaver that is NOT so eager.

The fact that you seek sexual satisfaction from different companions 2-3 times a week; (anywhere you can get it) clearly shows how empty those sexual encounters are. Surely at some point (just by sampling so many women) you would find someone that you are actually attracted to on a higher level.

Simply put. The reason that behavior like yours CAN turn into sexual addiction is because the law of diminishing returns. As you have more casual encounters they fill your need for sexual intimacy less and less each subsequent time. This forces you to NEED more and more sexual encounters to fill your BASIC sexual needs. This turns to sexual addiction because you begin to long for satisfaction that you cannot satiate. Before you know it you will do anything to ejaculate. Your brain will think that you can fill this void with increased frequency. It cannot comprehend that frequency is not the answer because eventually you may get very little to no sexual gratification upon ejaculation. Quality is the ONLY answer. It is the only way to fill the void. Why do you think people settle down? It is more fulfilling to have an intimate relationship with someone than nailing a filthy whore in a filthy bathroom. ;)

Which sounds a lot like:



Congrats - you discovered the oldest trick in the book. "treat girls like dirt; and they will stick to you like mud."

^^^^ Damn, this was VERY well said.. +rep :clap:
 
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