i don't understand the confusion.. i pay with my visa debit/ credit card.. i would suggest before ordering and using a name that doesn't belong to the house that you are planning on getting the seeds sent to.. just send a blank envelope with the name and address that you are gonna use to get the seeds and see if it gets delivered to the addy with no probs.. i have heard that sometimes if a mailman sees a name for an address that he is not familiar with living at the addy, they won't deliver the package.. so if you send a plain envelope and it gets there no probs, your good to use that same name an addy for your seeds.. when you pay with your card on the attitudes website, they ask for all your info and all, than they ask if the billing address is the same as the mailing addy, if its different just fill out the name and the addy for where they are gonna go.. pretty much it really..