PICTURE of YOURSELF THREAD

Lady.J

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I was really trying to stay out of this, but something struck me. What is bf thinking being with you for 4 years and not proposing? That's a long time. Our young friend letsbake is a smart man... knows when he sees something good to try and hold onto it.

sorry to bring it back up, lol, not really
Not every girl wants to be married :-P. A lot of people change once you have the "title". I like being in a relationship where both of us know the other could leave that night if they want to, without any liability or strings attached. I think it helps people act right lol. Been with my man for 3 years now...maybe we'll get married one day but def not rushing it. Sometimes a guy can convince himself he's ready when he's really not (women too). If you can hang around for a few years because you choose to, not because a piece of paper binds you, says a lot about the relationship imo.
 

jigfresh

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Hehehe. If my 2nd girlfriend would have said yes, I would have been in the same place. THANK God she said we should break up. Took 3 or 4 years to get my shit together, and found someone worth being around, who actually liked me, imagine that.

I swear no one should be able to make big life decisions before at least 25. Nah, I guess there are some mature people out there, but I know at 33 I'm still pretty much an idiot. Though I'm much better than before.
 

Lady.J

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Hehehe. If my 2nd girlfriend would have said yes, I would have been in the same place. THANK God she said we should break up. Took 3 or 4 years to get my shit together, and found someone worth being around, who actually liked me, imagine that.

I swear no one should be able to make big life decisions before at least 25. Nah, I guess there are some mature people out there, but I know at 33 I'm still pretty much an idiot. Though I'm much better than before.
I feel you on that! Was only 20 when I got married...got with a crazy who was several years older than me. We live and we learn lol. Appreciate that experience, learned a lot about the consequences of naivety. And that experience indirectly led me to the person I'm with now, can't have any qualms with that :).
 

BigJon

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Hehehe. If my 2nd girlfriend would have said yes, I would have been in the same place. THANK God she said we should break up. Took 3 or 4 years to get my shit together, and found someone worth being around, who actually liked me, imagine that.

I swear no one should be able to make big life decisions before at least 25. Nah, I guess there are some mature people out there, but I know at 33 I'm still pretty much an idiot. Though I'm much better than before.
I made my life decision at 16!

I only regret it a little bit.
 
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