smokinjs
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thats what ive been wanting for a LONG time. so hard to find people you completely trust when it comes to growing.. you just never know. but ya i on the other side of the country anyway.
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kayasgarden
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damn bwinn and i was not invited?????
Goodtimes
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oooo how did i miss this one??!?!
me and the Beatles....
me and my homies...in china...
peas out...
Sexy! Sexy!
HALLA!
bwinn27
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your a must kaya you know that. when ever someone wants to get a little trust worthy crue im there. kaya you would be my first pic.
Ser0 Products
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trust no one.
jamiemichelle
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Word. I dont trust anyone completely...when I do, Im always disappointed... so I stand by those words.
Ser0 Products
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yepp... 
LION~of~ZION
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Its nice when you can trust someone completely seems like there are very few of them out there anymore.
trusted my ex completely for over 13 years and then she screwed me so royally I thought the devil himself had posessed her
Its ok though I'm still giving people a chance. Its all on an individual basis and if I stop believing in the human race then the selfish buttholes of the world Win.
and Im not about to let that happen. lifes too short
Ser0 Products
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that's wen you lose, is when you give people a chance, no one deserves a chance... just have aquantinces... works out best.
StaySafe420
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I gave Mary Jane a chance... and we've been in love ever since
Garden Knowm
The Love Doctor
i trust everyone.. whats not to trust.. i take full responsibility for my own happiness..
Not trusting somebody is putting unfair expectations and demand son THEM...
Let live and let live... life is easy when you let people do what they want to do
iloveyou
Not trusting somebody is putting unfair expectations and demand son THEM...
Let live and let live... life is easy when you let people do what they want to do
iloveyou
Garden Knowm
The Love Doctor
I wish you'd trust me and and send me a gang load of pictures of your super hot self!
iloveyou
bwinn27
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thats to bad. i trust alot of people not with everything but with alot and in my 28 years of living ive done ok. it's better to have loved and lost then to have not loved at all. i live by those words.
jamiemichelle
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Ive been screwed over a lot pretty much by everyone Ive ever trusted. Including my own parents. My Dad committed suicide and before that he was a liar of a Dad... and my Mom is a slut, druggie, selfish c***. She has stole from me and lied to me more times than I can think.
People who I have called friends have some how always taken my kindness and took advantage of it...and almost every guy I have been with finds someway to make our whole relationship a lie, til they fall in love with me...by then its too late though because I can forgive, but I do not forget. I let people know from the beginning of any relationship friends or men, that trust is something that is very important to me. Though my last bf cheated while I was gone for only 1.5 weeks while drunk, and my supposed best friend grabbed my boyfriends junk one night thinking he wouldnt tell me. People I attract to are just straight up shady. Just thought I would give you my perspective of it.
Even though I say I trust no one, I always try to give people the benefit of the doubt. Maybe its because I am fairly street smart I feel I can pick up on how a person is the first moment I meet them. Yet still, as I said I usually dont trust my own gut and give them the benefit of the doubt then eventually end up getting screwed.
Thats why I said the people who are my TRUE friends I can count on one hand. I have plently of friends... just not people I would trust with my secrets.
trippyhippy
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^^ i can relate too much to that. I used to have the perception that you should trust your parents. But i was eaisly fooled when i found out both of them we're drug dealers and invite people into my house and constantly steal shit.
when i moved to Ohio i was naive to think everyone should be trusted, untill time and time again i got screwed over.. even my BEST friend.. i still have doubts in the back of my head that she might steal something, or betray me some how.
i believe you should beware of everyone you come into contact
when i moved to Ohio i was naive to think everyone should be trusted, untill time and time again i got screwed over.. even my BEST friend.. i still have doubts in the back of my head that she might steal something, or betray me some how.
i believe you should beware of everyone you come into contact
Garden Knowm
The Love Doctor
Being screwed over or lied to is a mind set.. it is ONE's own choice to be screwed over or cheated.... if you belive that you are entitled to something or that you know what the truth is... or that you OWN something then t is always.. ALWAYS inevitable that YOU will get screwed over.. ... If you respect people, you will also disrepect people. and when you disres[pect people, you disrepect yourself..
I just stick to loving people.. I remember that I am responsible for my own happiness... I treat others how I wanted tt be treated.. and i have done some bad shit in my life.. so NOW when somebody does something bad to me., I am aware that THEY DON'T REALLY want to be a bad person.. they don;t really want to try and hurt me.. and I treat them with the love and compassion that I want when i accidentally fook up....
It is hard enough policing myself.. I don;t want to police other people...
I am not saying that bwinn's or trippy hippy, or jamie's perspectives or methods are wrong, I am just saying that letting life do its thing and being responsible 100% for my own steady stable state of LOVE works best for me.. It requires a lot of work and concentration and dedication.. but it really makes life a hilarious laughable JOKE in even the most dire circimstances...
ilove all 3 of you
I just stick to loving people.. I remember that I am responsible for my own happiness... I treat others how I wanted tt be treated.. and i have done some bad shit in my life.. so NOW when somebody does something bad to me., I am aware that THEY DON'T REALLY want to be a bad person.. they don;t really want to try and hurt me.. and I treat them with the love and compassion that I want when i accidentally fook up....
It is hard enough policing myself.. I don;t want to police other people...
I am not saying that bwinn's or trippy hippy, or jamie's perspectives or methods are wrong, I am just saying that letting life do its thing and being responsible 100% for my own steady stable state of LOVE works best for me.. It requires a lot of work and concentration and dedication.. but it really makes life a hilarious laughable JOKE in even the most dire circimstances...
ilove all 3 of you
jamiemichelle
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Not true when you are just a child... I didnt ask my parents to screw me over. I dont believe I am entitled to anything from anyone. Thats the mindset I have. I dont go out of my way ever to be rude to someone. Quite often I hear I am too nice, giving and caring.
Either way that is a positive way to look at things. Im not trippen over it all I was just saying my point of view on trust. If I let everything thats happened to me in my life bother me Id probably be in a looney bin. But I love my life. I really do. Minus Illinois. I hate it here. But I will move back to Cali or Hawaii and be happy with where I live as well!! I just love the outdoors and during this weather its kind of hard to go swimming in the ocean or hiking to a waterfall. With all that, I think I would be the happiest lady in the world.
