You know, this one time I went for a bike ride and asked my partner to put the plants in.... Other than being away once for 3 days, I have taken care of these plants every single day, inside, outside. Geez, I know it is useless to blame people for what is ultimately your own responsibility, but I asked over and over, 'are you sure they're all in?'. I didn't want to open up the room and check, and it seemed extreme to go for a walk and search around to make sure they were not outside. At 1 a.m. when we were in bed it was still bothering me and I said, I'm getting a headlamp and going out there to take a look. "No, no! They are all in! I'm sure." So I did not go out.
Here's the message: Follow your instincts, listen to no one.
That probably goes for having a bad feeling about just about anything. Dot the i's, cross the t's. Double check, triple check.
I can't let go of it but I have to pick up the pieces and move on. You know, it could be a lot worse, it could be a kid or a dog. It is amazing how attached you get to every single one of these beautiful plants. I am surprised at how much this bothers me.
I will report back regardless. There are a few surviving big old leaves, but it looks like almost every leaf is dark and translucent, and they are looking worse than they did when I picked the plant up this morning, not better.
Thanks for responding.