Here, here, let me help you out... A male plant has balls, their real tiny at first, then cluster into lots of yellow ball like, bananna looking pods. A female plant, has white hairs, normally they stick out at the stems when first flowering, noticeable after a week, sometimes it takes two weeks to this (same goes for the male plant, 1-2 weeks to see results). Might want to get a maginifying glass to check for early results.