Question for Finshaggy and Urca

medicalmaryjane said:

way nerdier than that. i mean serious computer nerd stuff. i wouldn't even say it here for fear someone will see me on the street and know who i am bc i am such a nerd.



why dodes everything turn into such drama???

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Urca said:

I brought it up casually, no details, your the one who talks about it every where, all I did was reference it, why are you being so rude? Its kinda hurtful

plus all I said was "if matt and april can meet through here, maybe you could"
how is that rude when you constantly mention it

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RainbowBrite86 said:

THIS! This is a good example. (I have one of those nerd shirts btw, love those.) Anyway, surely you have seen the commercial that says getting insurance through this particular company is "so easy a caveman can do it" right? And you know how the cavemen are always so insulted? Well that's because what you're saying is "You suck. And if you suck, and you can do this, then I should be able to do it without a problem, because I don't suck." You didn't "casually mention" it. You didn't say maybe she could. You blatantly said "If April can do it, I know you can." (That's a paraphrase, i'm not looking it up again.) What you implied was that if April could find a man then it must be simple. (Which, I don't know about boy world, but in girl world thems is fightin words.) You basically said getting a man is so easy even April can do it, like she has some huge flaw that would repel men. Which isn't even close to true...look at her. Tell you what, she makes me wet. And THEN when she called you out on it, in a straightforward and unaggressive manner, you want to pretend like you're cowering in the corner. Oh April, you're so hurtful, why you being so mean, somebody save me. Are you serious? Alright, RainbowBrite just went gray. But it had to be said.

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RainbowBrite86 said:

THIS! This is a good example. (I have one of those nerd shirts btw, love those.) Anyway, surely you have seen the commercial that says getting insurance through this particular company is "so easy a caveman can do it" right? And you know how the cavemen are always so insulted? Well that's because what you're saying is "You suck. And if you suck, and you can do this, then I should be able to do it without a problem, because I don't suck." You didn't "casually mention" it. You didn't say maybe she could. You blatantly said "If April can do it, I know you can." (That's a paraphrase, i'm not looking it up again.) What you implied was that if April could find a man then it must be simple. (Which, I don't know about boy world, but in girl world thems is fightin words.) You basically said getting a man is so easy even April can do it, like she has some huge flaw that would repel men. Which isn't even close to true...look at her. Tell you what, she makes me wet. And THEN when she called you out on it, in a straightforward and unaggressive manner, you want to pretend like you're cowering in the corner. Oh April, you're so hurtful, why you being so mean, somebody save me. Are you serious? Alright, RainbowBrite just went gray. But it had to be said.

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april said:

Wanna be my BFF lol dear lord i luv u !!!!!!!! But bang on, u said it much better than i could, 2 many emotions these last few weeks, thanks tho atleast SOME people get it

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RainbowBrite86 said:

LoL yes I do! And Jesus tits, i'm not trying to be a bitch but Urca, fuck, you're bringing down the curve for my entire gender.

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RainbowBrite86 said:

THIS! This is a good example. (I have one of those nerd shirts btw, love those.) Anyway, surely you have seen the commercial that says getting insurance through this particular company is "so easy a caveman can do it" right? And you know how the cavemen are always so insulted? Well that's because what you're saying is "You suck. And if you suck, and you can do this, then I should be able to do it without a problem, because I don't suck." You didn't "casually mention" it. You didn't say maybe she could. You blatantly said "If April can do it, I know you can." (That's a paraphrase, i'm not looking it up again.) What you implied was that if April could find a man then it must be simple. (Which, I don't know about boy world, but in girl world thems is fightin words.) You basically said getting a man is so easy even April can do it, like she has some huge flaw that would repel men. Which isn't even close to true...look at her. Tell you what, she makes me wet. And THEN when she called you out on it, in a straightforward and unaggressive manner, you want to pretend like you're cowering in the corner. Oh April, you're so hurtful, why you being so mean, somebody save me. Are you serious? Alright, RainbowBrite just went gray. But it had to be said.

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xKuroiTaimax said:

Oh I get it...

1) People on this forum have a habit of 'chiming in' and maliciously dogpiling when someone has been singled out. It's happened to alot of us, but it's happened to April recently

2) I think maybe April though Urca was saying desperate people like me 'manage to' hook up with someone on the forum because they can't get anything elsewhere

3) Thus lumping April into the same category, as well as having discussed something April felt was private and personal? It seemed facetious like Urca was teasing April about the circumstances?

I think it was just a casual mention. I'm not taking sides here, but I was shocked when you took it like mentioning it was a bad thing. Not that I think everyone should be entitled to talk about your personal life, you just seemed really happy about it. I get that you were responding to a quote/making a joke. I say crazy things in response to a topic too lol. The bottom line is: We're happy for you, April

Urca, I'm sorry you got into trouble because of me again

I love how I can calmly assess a situation if I'm not directly in it. I must either be blinkered or retarded *hits self*

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Urca said:

What? you're reading way too much into this...
...how is it facetious to wish that kuroi could meet someone on here like you and be happy?

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RainbowBrite86 said:

My name is RainbowBrite. I have a fucking rainbow and a unicorn and small fuzzy people on my avatar. My picture is up on my profile lol. Why does everyone think I'm a guy??

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ganjames said:

I've never looked at your profile until now, I barely look at anyones profile.


wanna fuck?

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xKuroiTaimax said:

Rainbow, I love you (you know that, lol) and April and Urca. I genuinely think Urca genuinely didn't mean it 'that way'. We're very similar, I don't think Urca's capable of being so underhandedly malicious. I think it was read into too much. it may be because I tend to take things literally but It's all okay and we should all just get together for snow cones and an unhealthy amount of condensed milk.

Look, a Rainbow one, for you <3

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ganjames said:

I've never looked at your profile until now, I barely look at anyones profile.


wanna fuck?

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RainbowBrite86 said:

Blessed are the peacemakers, Kuroi. And Johnny, no peppers this morning I'm just going to be a little more verbally abusive than I normally am for the next week or so.

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RainbowBrite86 said:

Wow. Ganja, I like you lol. I do. But I think I speak for every member of the female species when I say...that line has to go. You have to bring something better than that. At least if you want anything with an IQ over 70. And mine is. But kudos for the uh...minimal effort there lol.

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RainbowBrite86 said:

No, that one won't work either. Try one about a woman's eyes or something.

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ganjames said:

I really like those shoes.

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