Quick question

So this is my first grow and I'm teal new to this I've got grape stomper ak47 and train wreck going now I have fed them watered them not on a great schedule because I'm real busy so needless to say they are extremely bushy because I really don't know what I'm doing so I tied the top down and they started growing side ways like instead of one top now there is many tops now the tops and the outside flowers are looking great but everything inside is really behind in the flowering stage so here's my question should I start thinning it out and getting rid of the smaller buds which seems like a waste of should I just let it go natural and harvest in stages taking what's ready and leave the rest to go longer. Oh and yes they been out since about the second week of May like I said I'm new so I really don't know the time line and I've heard so many different things but my friend says he live by the first frost rule. Anybody heard this.

you should cut some, or it will be a nightmare to trim-up with lots of very small flowers.

pull off whatever is yellowing and brown or dead.

also, try not to get the flowers wet, as they get bigger; best if they stay dry as they can. its gonna be hard enough with the night/morning dew.

I like to make sure, my outdoor plants get sun ASAP to help them dry out quickly each day.

When it gets wet dewy on the mornings I'll give the trunk a good shake, do this before your shower or youll go to work and everyone will wonder why they smell weed.

Let them go natural. Larf is what you make it.