Random Jibber Jabber Thread

Indagrow

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guys i cant stay in america with my husband so ill be spending the next 9 months back in canada for doctors appointments, because the hospital is too expensive for us in america , this isnt fun ..and itsnt what i wanted
my husband can only take so muhc time off in the military...we wont be seeing eachother at all....ill have to go back get a new apartment ...and be alone

i still have 4 years left for my masters degree in school as well

im not ready for this i dont want this...
So I'll be the asshole that says what everyone thinks.... Abort?
 

sunni

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So I'll be the asshole that says what everyone thinks.... Abort?
no ill just have to suck it up and go back to canada, it sucks i need to vent....and cry it out
it'll all work out i guess at some point...just hate being away from my husband im CONSTANTLY fucking away from him..and i know i signed up for that and all that jazz...
but it sucks.
 

Indagrow

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no ill just have to suck it up and go back to canada, it sucks i need to vent....and cry it out
it'll all work out i guess at some point...just hate being away from my husband im CONSTANTLY fucking away from him..and i know i signed up for that and all that jazz...
but it sucks.
Well I hope it's his then



I jest I jest.
 

Gary Goodson

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I believe this is just the next step for you on the road of life. Sometimes you do just have to let it out though, and that's ok too. You don't have to welcome every situation with open arms. And we can't expect perfection in the way we deal with things.

In a nutshell, I'm saying there is nothing wrong with the way you're feeling right now. You will get past it though, remember that.
 

Singlemalt

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“They're professionals at this in Russia, so no matter how many Jell-O shots or Jäger shooters you might have downed at college mixers, no matter how good a drinker you might think you are, don't forget that the Russians -- any Russian -- can drink you under the table.”
-- excerpted from A Cook’s Tour: Global Adventures in Extreme Cuisines
 

bu$hleaguer

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Just cut my finger pretty good. Stopped the bleeding but I def cut through the nail. Don't think the ER can stitch a nail anyway.

@curious2garden

What do ya'll think- superglue the nail and put some neosporin on it and wrap it up??
Fuck
 

april

Pickle Queen
@sunni ...omg congrats!!!
OK mama take a deep breath! !!
Understand that EVERYTHING in life happens for a reason! How far along are you?? I just had my 3 month check up. .babies due March 19..7 days after my 34th bday! !
Have you researched all your options? Not talking abortion ...financial via Canadian health coverage ..what happens if ur injured. ..don't u have military coverage since ur married? ? Prenatal appointments are like this...test ur blood sugar with a finger pick sample. .check ur weight. .and collect a pee sample. .doctors ask if anything is off..I say no and it's done...maybe ask around for a midwife. ..
 

sunni

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@sunni ...omg congrats!!!
OK mama take a deep breath! !!
Understand that EVERYTHING in life happens for a reason! How far along are you?? I just had my 3 month check up. .babies due March 19..7 days after my 34th bday! !
Have you researched all your options? Not talking abortion ...financial via Canadian health coverage ..what happens if ur injured. ..don't u have military coverage since ur married? ? Prenatal appointments are like this...test ur blood sugar with a finger pick sample. .check ur weight. .and collect a pee sample. .doctors ask if anything is off..I say no and it's done...maybe ask around for a midwife. ..
I can't get military tri care yet because my paperwork is not through for my dual citizenship
It's a long process
So I get NO military spousal support or benefits

Nice eh ?

I dunno in guessing 3 weeks pregnant

The not smoking thing is killing me and it's been 5 hours
 

sunni

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We are not broke people he gets paid a really good wage We don't live pay check to pay check we have money but we're not rich enough to pay like 90,000$ for a delivery lol
Ya know ?
 

Growan

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I can't get military tri care yet because my paperwork is not through for my dual citizenship
It's a long process
So I get NO military spousal support or benefits

Nice eh ?

I dunno in guessing 3 weeks pregnant

The not smoking thing is killing me and it's been 5 hours
Congrats Sunni! You've had enough experience cleaning up after us crowd of babies so one of your own should be a piece of cake!
 

april

Pickle Queen
I can't get military tri care yet because my paperwork is not through for my dual citizenship
It's a long process
So I get NO military spousal support or benefits

Nice eh ?

I dunno in guessing 3 weeks pregnant

The not smoking thing is killing me and it's been 5 hours
That's bullshit...freaking paperwork. .
Lol honestly I've cut back from a pack a day to less than half...I know let the negative comments start from the peanut gallery but going from the intense job I did for 2 years to staying home full time and finding out I'm preggo all in a few days was enough stress..I don't need to have panic attacks. ..i bought a nicotine free ecig ..it helps..but my doctor said if I can slowly quit it's safer for me...I'd rather not have a miscarriage. .plus all my aunts smoked as they normally did while pregnant. .none with issues...
 

sunni

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That's bullshit...freaking paperwork. .
Lol honestly I've cut back from a pack a day to less than half...I know let the negative comments start from the peanut gallery but going from the intense job I did for 2 years to staying home full time and finding out I'm preggo all in a few days was enough stress..I don't need to have panic attacks. ..i bought a nicotine free ecig ..it helps..but my doctor said if I can slowly quit it's safer for me...I'd rather not have a miscarriage. .plus all my aunts smoked as they normally did while pregnant. .none with issues...
I know people are so judgemental about smoking and pregnancy I always said I would quit right away but I'm a half a pack a day smoker since 14
 

Singlemalt

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That's bullshit...freaking paperwork. .
Lol honestly I've cut back from a pack a day to less than half...I know let the negative comments start from the peanut gallery but going from the intense job I did for 2 years to staying home full time and finding out I'm preggo all in a few days was enough stress..I don't need to have panic attacks. ..i bought a nicotine free ecig ..it helps..but my doctor said if I can slowly quit it's safer for me...I'd rather not have a miscarriage. .plus all my aunts smoked as they normally did while pregnant. .none with issues...
My mom smoked when preggers with me (the dark ages, Drs smoked too); no probs with the preg, me, or her. This was in 1950, cigs weren't spiked like now days. If its makin you crazy, Sunni, switch to a natural tobacco(no additives), roll your own and limit to a couple a day and taper off
 
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april

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My mom smoked when preggers with me (the dark ages, Drs smoked too); no probs with the preg, me, or her. This was in 1950, cigs weren't spiked like now days. If its makin you crazy, Sunni, switch to a natural tobacco(no additives), roll your own and limit to a couple a day and taper off
Never thought of rolling my own...natural tabaco eh...gonna look around. .great advice. .ya I eliminate 2 per week..adds up..also smoking half at a time...now I want one...lol
 

april

Pickle Queen
Catch 22...natural tabaco has a higher percentage of nicotine. .think 36% compared to 9.6 % which is what the average brand name cigarettes contains..
But that's in regards to American Spirit Tobacco. .
 
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