ive never used my real name on the mailto address when ordering online. regardless of what the name on whatever card may be, you can ship to whom and where ever you want to.
dont use your name. youre not required to. under any circumstances. and if the option isnt there in the ordering information on their website, then email them before ordering and let them know youd like to do that. Im sure they can accommodate.
if not get a po box, get online and get free everything, from summit racing catalogs, to tampon samples, go get the mail every couple days till you get the beans