Uraeus-
I would go to the state website, they should have the info on what you need for proof of residency (I used a drivers liscence...but other things might work as well). As far the Dr's rec.........it really depends on your conditions and where you live. If you have a documented medical condition that is listed under Amendment 20 as one of the valid conditions for MMJ....then I would just ask your primary physician (if you have one here). They can only say yes or no and you might be surprised how many Dr's support cannabis. My father (a cancer patient), only had to mention it to his primary Dr. and the rec was signed. If you do not have a normal Dr. yet.....then I would just go with a Dispensary/MMJ Dr. that seems professional and reputable. As far as I know, most will let you sign anybody (or nobody) as the caregiver.....they just try to convince you to sign them by offering you deals/discounts,etc.... As I said before, if you are looking to grow your own medicine, then I recommend playing it safe and NOT having a caregiver, but that is just my opinion...others will tell you otherwise. Good lucK!