mahlye
Well-Known Member
I am in a dilemma
This girl who I would like to marry some day is catholic. I do not follow any religion and never will. she has expressed that if I am not catholic, I can't be married in a catholic church, rendering our marriage to be a lie??
are ya fucking kidding me?? who need's to get real here? it's a HUGE HUGE thing to ask somebody to take up a religion, especially if there are methods to be followed before you are considered a member. or is it hard to just not be married in a catholic church and have your spouse change his/her views to accommodate what you believe.
I never cared for religion but still never ridiculed any form of it or those who follow a religion; but now it is coming in between me and someone I love and I just don't believe I should follow it, now I actually dislike it. I feel that it's completely over the line and absurd to say the least to ask me to change my views and go against my lifestyle and adopt catholicism. it is not beyond my comprehension that my girlfriend could take her religion and faith so seriously, but I can't understand how she could expect me to become catholic. that is a huge thing..I'm sorry.
what do you think?
This girl who I would like to marry some day is catholic. I do not follow any religion and never will. she has expressed that if I am not catholic, I can't be married in a catholic church, rendering our marriage to be a lie??
are ya fucking kidding me?? who need's to get real here? it's a HUGE HUGE thing to ask somebody to take up a religion, especially if there are methods to be followed before you are considered a member. or is it hard to just not be married in a catholic church and have your spouse change his/her views to accommodate what you believe.
I never cared for religion but still never ridiculed any form of it or those who follow a religion; but now it is coming in between me and someone I love and I just don't believe I should follow it, now I actually dislike it. I feel that it's completely over the line and absurd to say the least to ask me to change my views and go against my lifestyle and adopt catholicism. it is not beyond my comprehension that my girlfriend could take her religion and faith so seriously, but I can't understand how she could expect me to become catholic. that is a huge thing..I'm sorry.
what do you think?