Its gonna be a long post but its needed.
The lower the temps in the room the higher humidity the plants can handle without getting beat down,just like people, it can be very hot in the high 80 degree range & as long as there is very little humidity the heat isnt bad to live with, but raise the humidity to 80% & were all miserable,think about this for a second,in 80% humidity conditions you'd be drenched in sweat with your shirt hanging down to your knees,you'd feel like hell,this is how your plants feel.
Acceptable Humidity levels durring heavy bud are highly dependant on 2 things,the first & the most important is direct air circulation on & around all the bud sites,the better the air flow directly on/over & around the buds the higher humidity the buds can disperse without collecting so much moisture that mold starts forming within the center of the bud,once bud rott sets in your screwed.
Whats happening right now between the high temps & out of sight humidity is that your plants are wilting,this is not good.At 80% humidity the walls must be very damp,it can be done but for a new grower its an invitation for bud rott & one that you'll most likely experience if you dont get the humidity down to below 60%,a humidity level between 50% & 60% is what your looking for at all times.
Do not continue to allow the plants to live in an 80% relative humidity condition no matter what anybody says beacuse its bad advice,its a flat out bad enviroment for the plants/bud sites to live in.
The 2nd factor is heat,while 85 degrees is a temp the plants can live in it is not the optimum temp for indoor plants to bud at,the plants will be much more comfortable & produce more bud growth if you can get the temps down to below the 80 degree mark,you should shoot for around 75 degres if at all possible for the plants to be at their optimum comfort level,everything grows better when its comfortable,same as with people.
You mentioned getting an exhaust fan,what size are you getting & how many cfm will the fan produce,this is important if you want room temps to be something you can control,you should be able to lower the overall temp in your room by a full 10 degrees within 10 minutes of the exhaust fan starting up.
When you do get the right cfm fan you'll want to mount it as high as possible in the room,heat collects at the top of the room obviously,you'll also want to have either a passive or powered air intake at or very near floor level so cool air can be sucked into the room,with the room conditions you have powered intake would be preferable & the best choice.
When trying to overcome high humidity its best to try & control the levels using the air intake & exhaust instead of dehumidifiers,first off dehumidifiers put out ass loads of heat,think electric space heater here,a dehumidifier will not help your allready too hot room,second is that dehumidifiers use alot of electricity,they run on much the same principal as an air conditioner.
Your best bet for controlling temps & humidity is to bring in fresh cool air from another area of the home via a duct with an intake fan blowing the air in the room at floor level,then the exhaust set up twords the ceiling pulling hot air from the room,this exchange of air will lower humidity levels very fast if implemented properly as well as to correct any heat issues.