this does not really apply to personal growers (although it might to some) but if you are growing any kind of weight do it yourself do not have a grow buddy in any shape or form.
theorettically i could have gone to check on a grow this afternoon that i had in a four bedroom semi with my cousin babysitting
theorettically i could have turned up to find an empty house with 2000 plants at 7wks flower and all the equipment (about £7,000) long gone and my cousin dissapeared with it.
theorettically i could have then gone to his girlfriends flat to find that empty and abandoned too.
theorettically i would be well pissed off , wouldnt you?
moral of this story is do it yourself
ripz