RIU Ladies' Lounge?

do we want an RIU Ladies' Lounge?

  • YES! even internet girls need a 'powder room'!

    Votes: 20 80.0%
  • NO! take their shoes & get 'em back in the kitchen!

    Votes: 5 20.0%

  • Total voters
    25

Serapis

Well-Known Member
come one dude, you're taking this thing way too much to heart dude... We have different rooms for different MMJ states... we have different rooms for different techniques.... Why would you be against it? You can simply stay out of it..... if you have no interest, move along and have a great day :)

What is SP?

I don't believe that it should matter if you are a girl or a guy on here, afterall the forum is for cannabis growing and should not differentiate between the sexes. Also RIU means different things to different people, for some it means MMJ but not for all.
 

newworldicon

Well-Known Member
Maybe you should get back outside and take care of the yard? ;)

Just an idea...
Um......all I can say is if you think I am taking this to heart then perhaps that's what's running round in your head mate.

Don't be rude now, I have not shown any rudeness to mellokitty nor you so I suggest you stop telling me to run along my friend.....don't like my opinions on this matter than take your own advice and go back in your jardin!!
 

Serapis

Well-Known Member
Your get back in the kitchen remark was certainly polite then in your eyes.... typical chauvinism... I'm perfectly entitled to disagree with your opinion and I have not been rude to you. I suggest you run along and play with your male friends, you have made your point known here and quite frankly, I doubt the women care what you think. ;)

Um......all I can say is if you think I am taking this to heart then perhaps that's what's running round in your head mate.

Don't be rude now, I have not shown any rudeness to mellokitty nor you so I suggest you stop telling me to run along my friend.....don't like my opinions on this matter than take your own advice and go back in your jardin!!
 

newworldicon

Well-Known Member
Your get back in the kitchen remark was certainly polite then in your eyes.... typical chauvinism... I'm perfectly entitled to disagree with your opinion and I have not been rude to you. I suggest you run along and play with your male friends, you have made your point known here and quite frankly, I doubt the women care what you think. ;)
That was a quote from the poll if you were to read properly so it in no way implied that women should get back in the kitchen Serapis, as usual you have got the wrong end of the stick, if you can't read properly then is that my fault?

By the by whilst you wax lyrical on this thread mellokitty is on another thread contradicting herself by getting into the sexual banter whilst on this thread she asks for a lounge so that women don't need to hear the filth....

would you like a link to it.....
 

Serapis

Well-Known Member
Your poll.....don't you think men would want a different choice than..... "get back in the kitchen"..?
I stand corrected ;p

But who cares if they get a room? Anyone not interested can just stay out of it... I think the LED users would probably be pissed if they got it, because they have been asking for a separate forum for some time.

Not Mello..... I have good images of her in my head.. ;)
 

newworldicon

Well-Known Member
I stand corrected ;p

But who cares if they get a room? Anyone not interested can just stay out of it... I think the LED users would probably be pissed if they got it, because they have been asking for a separate forum for some time.

Not Mello..... I have good images of her in my head.. ;)
I don't care if they get a room, I simply stated why?.....I love that RIU does not differentiate and I feel that a woman's lounge would only alienate women even more if they do in fact feel that way, I hope not, I would like to think that most guys on here care little about pussy whilst being able to talk shop.
 

mellokitty

Moderatrix of Journals
That was a quote from the poll if you were to read properly so it in no way implied that women should get back in the kitchen Serapis, as usual you have got the wrong end of the stick, if you can't read properly then is that my fault?

By the by whilst you wax lyrical on this thread mellokitty is on another thread contradicting herself by getting into the sexual banter whilst on this thread she asks for a lounge so that women don't need to hear the filth....

would you like a link to it.....
I don't care if they get a room, I simply stated why?.....I love that RIU does not differentiate and I feel that a woman's lounge would only alienate women even more if they do in fact feel that way, I hope not, I would like to think that most guys on here care little about pussy whilst being able to talk shop.
.... anybody else catch the paradox at play here....?
 

mellokitty

Moderatrix of Journals
in case this is too macrocosmic for your comprehension....
there's a big difference between consensual sexual banter and having a guy refer to you and your gender using a euphemism for the gender-defining feature of your sex.... still with me?

a common misconception among both men and women who lack an understanding of basic human rights is that a woman who doesn't want to deal with gender-based slurs, discrimination, misrepresentation, etc. etc. ought not to engage in any activity that reinforces that very sexuality (ie. flirt, dress slutty, or be anything but asexual and gender-ambiguous) at all times -- this idea is still a *symptom of a patriarchal society, not in any way a freedom.

i refuse to be apologetic about my sexuality.
i'm a one-man woman but that doesn't exactly make me a cloistered nun.
personally i think it's a symptom of a diseased species that the females are shamed for the very attributes and behaviours necessary for the longevity and continuation of the species itself. but what would i know? i'm just a girl, *more hair-twirling* and that's just my opinion, after all. :roll:
 

mellokitty

Moderatrix of Journals
That was a quote from the poll if you were to read properly so it in no way implied that women should get back in the kitchen Serapis, as usual you have got the wrong end of the stick, if you can't read properly then is that my fault?

By the by whilst you wax lyrical on this thread mellokitty is on another thread contradicting herself by getting into the sexual banter whilst on this thread she asks for a lounge so that women don't need to hear the filth....

would you like a link to it.....
see, the prevalence of ideas like this are exactly the sort of misogyny that spurs movements like this:

http://www.slutwalktoronto.com/
 

newworldicon

Well-Known Member
in case this is too macrocosmic for your comprehension....
there's a big difference between consensual sexual banter and having a guy refer to you and your gender using a euphemism for the gender-defining feature of your sex.... still with me?

a common misconception among both men and women who lack an understanding of basic human rights is that a woman who doesn't want to deal with gender-based slurs, discrimination, misrepresentation, etc. etc. ought not to engage in any activity that reinforces that very sexuality (ie. flirt, dress slutty, or be anything but asexual and gender-ambiguous) at all times -- this idea is still a *symptom of a patriarchal society, not in any way a freedom.
Gee thanks for all the big words, I finally opened a dictionary. So you are assuming that I support inequality and bias of men over women from what I have said...keep assuming, ignorance is bliss.

If you read properly what I have said in this thread you would see that I applaud the fact that men and women on this site can discuss a commonality in cannabis growing without all the sexual innuendos so common on the internet.
 

mellokitty

Moderatrix of Journals
Gee thanks for all the big words, I finally opened a dictionary. So you are assuming that I support inequality and bias of men over women from what I have said...keep assuming, ignorance is bliss.

If you read properly what I have said in this thread you would see that I applaud the fact that men and women on this site can discuss a commonality in cannabis growing without all the sexual innuendos so common on the internet.
close but no cigar, nice try though.
i'm just pointing out the obvious fallacy of you paying lip service to equality and community of riu and then referring to my demographic as "pussy" in practically the same keystroke.

do you? because i was under the impression that you just tried to 'put me in my place' by pointing out my other-thread sexual banter a few posts ago.... silly me. ;)
 

newworldicon

Well-Known Member
see, the prevalence of ideas like this are exactly the sort of misogyny that spurs movements like this:

http://www.slutwalktoronto.com/
Talk about getting carried away here......my girlfriend tells me to convey one woman to another to lighten up, newworldicon is not a sexist but how are you to know that from a bit of banter....you on the other hand should realise that it was man who planted the seed that women should be able to express your sexuality without fear of judgement, that way he makes you believe that it is your decision to dress provocatively or strut like a "slut".....food for thought Mellokitty..

Anyway I am about to get a massage from my chicka so no hard feelings and enjoy your weekend mellokitty.

PS. Hope you get your lounge, you really seem to want it.
 

newworldicon

Well-Known Member
close but no cigar, nice try though.
i'm just pointing out the obvious fallacy of you paying lip service to equality and community of riu and then referring to my demographic as "pussy" in practically the same keystroke.

do you? because i was under the impression that you just tried to 'put me in my place' by pointing out my other-thread sexual banter a few posts ago.... silly me. ;)
"Pussy"..."sausage"...who cares???....what's in a word!?...have a great weekend!
 

mellokitty

Moderatrix of Journals
1.--my girlfriend tells me to convey one woman to another to lighten up,
2.--you on the other hand should realise that it was man who planted the seed that women should be able to express your sexuality without fear of judgement, that way he makes you believe that it is your decision to dress provocatively or strut like a "slut".....food for thought Mellokitty..

3.--Anyway I am about to get a massage from my chicka so no hard feelings and enjoy your weekend mellokitty.
1. ah, the 'divide and conquer' strategy. never encountered that before. tell your gf i'm just fine, just very opinionated, and thanks for her concern.
2. um..... what *planet* are you from....? is the cannabis blue with yellow polka dots there? roman catholic church, confusianism, heard of those? anyway, agree to disagree:
3. hey, i'm happy for ya, and it's not that i think you're a sexist, but you *asked*, right? the squeaky wheel gets the grease, just sharing my thoughts. this is called 'discussion.' thank you for not calling me anything worse than 'pussy' (*meo~w*); i'd've had to break out the 6-syllable words on you. ;)
 
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