hey russOr,,I'm HoLE,,sorry to hear about your vacation,,and even worse ,,how you got it,,my X is a person who would do the same thing,,guess thats why I never even tried to grow while with her,,I just knew,,,fortunately I have a new woman in my life(3 years) who has encouraged me to grow,,and whom I know I could trust with anything,,she is solid,,seen your nick in chat with an @ in front of it,,so I knew you must be a somebody around here,,,,anyway,,welcome back and nice to meet ya
Keep on Growin
HoLE