Dude, listen to Florida Girl!!! Girls don't like arseholes! they like guys who aren't push overs and will stand up for themselves and her, but NOT arseholes! ... Mate, I used to be Mr. nice guy too. Still am, but fuk with my family (parents, siblings - I don't have kids or anything) and I'll rip your head off and kill you 13 times over
... Not cause I'm an arsehole, but because I protect the people I love.
Also a bit of advice - don't ask women advice on how to pickup women, the things you'll always be told are:
1 - Be Confident
2 - Be Yourself
3 - Have a good sense of humour
Well!!! Thank you soo fukn much (sarcasm)...
1 - It's kind of hard to just BE confident, like; Hey I'm guna go out tonight and just BE confident, magically, coz I said so ... Firstly, be BRAVE, go talk to a women you see that you think is pretty, she'll at least be polite and say something back to you, good enough for now, SUCCESS BREEDS CONFIDENCE, set yourself challenges like: today I'm guna talk to one random stranger (male or female - doesn't matter) even talk just bout the weather, then advance from there, like; today I'm going to make one girl laugh, or wateva.
2 - Be ourselves? Well if that fukn worked none of us would ever be alone now would we! haha ... Be the BEST self you can be, women care more about how you present yourself than how you actually look... if i go to the grocery store in socks, t shirt and warm pants, I get some looks of; wat the fuk? ... If I go in tidy dark greyish jeans, white shoes, white dress shirt (matches shoes), with a black sweatshirt overtop (matches jeans-ish and contrasts the white) [no hoodys!] then I can talk to a hot chick and have her blush coz this well presented guy is talking to her (and he appears successful and confident - even tho I'm not hugely successful or rich and I'm actually freaking out about talking to her a bit)
3 - What if I'm being myself, but myself doesn't have the best sense of humour, that contradicts itself a bit doesn't it? Hahaha.
Damn, I'm pratling on.
Mate, you really want to get good with women? You REALLY want to?
... I'll PM you, if you REALLY want to be better than anyone you know with women, take the advice I give you, I don't care if your overweight or have bad skin or buck teeth, your future is in your hands, is it filled with beautiful women, or are you still feeling lonely in 2 years time? Read the PM