sorry to hear that canuck, my dad died 5 years ago when I was 16, never had the chance to smoke with him, though my mom tells me in the distant past he used peyote and they had a little coke stint in the 80s. This year in January I finally got to smoke with my mom and stepdad, it was a really wonderful bonding experience and my mom takes hits every so often now. I'm so glad it happened, my stepdad died in March and it kind of seems like a superficial thing, but I'd always wanted to smoke with him and I'm glad I got the chance to