so i got a date tomorrow... nervous

Urca

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he's really funny, sweet, kind, hella smart... but 8 years older than me. im excited but at the same time i have misgivings
A) I have feelings for another guy-but we arent talking anymore
B) Im kinda talking to this one guy and he's fucked up alot and hurt me, but he's moving to my town and Im kinda considering giving him a chance
c) Ive only ever kissed one guy before (numerous occaisions however)... what if im not all that good, or not on the same level as him...
Anyway this guy loves that im big, thinks im sexy, smart, funny... Just hella nervous
 

Urca

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ahaha i swear this guy is perfect... which makes me more nervous. only flaw is that he is 5'4... i can overlook that
 

Urca

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haha im 5'2 anyway so its all good. he's just like waaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyy older than me
 

heathaa

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as long as your over 18 go for it. it will at least give you a chance to learn an experience or two
 

Urca

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every guy i have been somewhat involved with has been at least 4 years older, mostly its five or more years....
 

......

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theres a reason the guys going for girls so much younger then him.Hes more then likely a fucking weirdo and you should move on.
 

Urca

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haha you know how many women get raped in africa?? this is a god send! aids rates will go way down with this thing
 

april

Pickle Queen
Urca i think and older man is what u need, someone who is a bit more experienced then u might be able to offer u some real fun,(and a certain level of comfort and confidence that i feel u would benefit from). I've dated older men ( my ex was 9 yrs older then me) and honestly i prefer an older guy to one my age or younger, but again age is only a number.
 

racerboy71

bud bootlegger
Urca i think and older man is what u need, someone who is a bit more experienced then u might be able to offer u some real fun,(and a certain level of comfort and confidence that i feel u would benefit from). I've dated older men ( my ex was 9 yrs older then me) and honestly i prefer an older guy to one my age or younger, but again age is only a number.
i'm older than you april... lol... but yah, i agree, i think an older guy would be good for you as well..
 

Urca

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like i said, most guys i am interested in or have a chance with are at least five years older... but im kinda pumped to see him... hella charming guy.
 
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