so I picked up a loupe when I went to get more bug murder spray. besides giving me a headache trying to look through the thing, I did see some dead ass mites. 2 little black dots on their backs. no movement, so unless they were sleeping... the little white dots I have been seeing, that I assumed were the mites, are not. so those must be the eggs? I got a new type of spray, 'SNS 217' that claims to kill the eggs as well as the mites. stuff has a strong smell. but I didn't realize the life cycle where u want to hit it every couple days. I had been spraying for like 3-4 days in a row and thought I was good. now I will hit them for like 3 days in a row...wait 3 days, hit again...wait 3 days hit again. thanks everyone for teaching noob. evey time a spider mite dies, an angel smiles.
on a side note: does anyone else have trouble typing on this site? it seems like only half my letters register, and I have to go back and retype