you can use hemp wick in the wind by doubling it up (twisting it) and using a torch lighter to light it, it will stay lit just fine in the wind.
driving, shit man theres easy as hell ways, you can actually bend it to be in the perfect position on your pipe to just light it and hit it holding it with one hand blow it out with your hit... easy as fuck in fact easier than a lighter imo.
there really is no excuse leaving the wick othe rplaces, you can cut it in to so many pieces you can leave it EVERYWHERE.
its cool if you wanna stick to your lighter, just because your 45 and ok doesn't mean jack honestly, most of these underlying health issues associated with butane start apearing around age 55-65 such as emphasema and potentially other conditions I don't k now about.
got a link?
EDIT:
doing a bit of my OWN research, ....
http://www.bluelight.ru/vb/threads/168236-Health-issues-surrounding-Butane-lighters
Butane lighters are not toxic at all.
What inside it its pure butane distilled and compressed from petroleum.
The combustion of butane doesnt give any nasty products, dont worry.
the combustion of butane and all other alkanes hydrocarbons follow a very simple formula.
2 C4H10 + 13 O2 ------> 8 CO2 + 10 H2O
So.. up here is the balanced formula.
As you can se butane(C4H10) needs oxygen to start combustion.
The end of reaction results in formation of carbon dioxide and water!
Hehehe....see?...nothing that bad!
Have ya ever tried (when u are playing around boered) putting the lighter flame next to a cold window glass?
You will notes that above the flame touching the glass some vapours are condensing on the window.
Those are water particules tha cime from the combustion reaction!
The carbon dioxide(CO2) since its a gas escapes and diffuses in the air.
SO........ Again...combusting butane isn't toxic at all.
you could inhale the vapours formed from combustion and nothing bad would happend to you.
All alkanes hydrocarbons: methane, ethane, propane, butane, pentane, dodecane...ect..... will combust in the same way...following the same formula.
they will al transfor into carbon dioxide and water.
Its useful to know some chem isnt it?
Ah...about the lighter flints.
No need to worry about that too.
Lighter flints are composed by an alloy of iron an cerium metal.
The cerium increses the reactivity of the flintstone and give it pyrophoric propeties.
The hard scratching of the lighter causes the metal to get hot and to become more reactive and it reacts with oxygen to form iron and cerioum oxide.
The reaction forming the oxides of the 2 metals is pretty energetic and fast.
This energetic reaction causes the little spark that gives enough detonating energy to ignite the butane and starte the reaction between butane and oxygen.
The forming iron and cerium oxide are 2 solids which are completely non volatile....wich means..they dont release molecules spontaneously.
The formed oxides just fall down as soon as the spark finishes.
those oxides are heavy and quickly follow the law of gravity after the sparkling.
No products from from the flint goes in you mouth/joint.
So again no need to worry. lighters are completely safe and untoxic.
I would rather inform you that weed itself gives you MANY nasty products in its combustion(in microscopic ammounts of course).
So far i can name you:
hydrogen cyanide
sulfur dioxide
nitrogen dioxide
formal dehyde
carbon monoxide
acrolein
ammonia
complex semihydrocarbon compounds
and there are many others.......
So...to conclude......NO.....lighters do not give toxic cmpounds.
PEACE
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