The Adults with Adult children thread...

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gioua

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So figured I would create a lil post about those of us who are now adults with adult kids.. and those of us with kids at home..
I have 4 kids
Male Stepson since age 6) now age 24 (just married has a baby on the way)
Male Stepson since age 4) now age 22 (kinda lost in his direction currently... )
Daughter Age 16 a Junior in H.S
Son age 11 entering 8th grade.

I am 42 married for 17 years been thru a lot.

One of the first things I noticed was how I became my mom and dad around my kids.. I was telling my kids crap they use to tell me.. I began to notice heck my folks really were buzz kills they were just worried as hell..

I thought about this thread the other day while reading a article about how bad the whooping cough is this year and the effected ages and was for a moment relaxed since I had no kids this age.. till I realized I have a grandkid on the way.. and now will loose sleep over this..


thank GOD I smoke & medibles!


sure you guys have done this or worse..??
 
Chiceh

Chiceh

Global Mod, Stoner Chic
I have a daughter that will be 10 this year and feel we are coming close to the day we need to fully explain things to her. We have planted seeds over the years about how people take medicines and where medicines come from natural herbs and pills etc. lol but nothing outright yet. We have this cool book for when the time come called "It's just a plant". My hopes are to teach her about it before they do it in school and taint her perception of marijuana. This is something I tend to stress over as a parent.
 
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Thor1911

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Chiceh said:
I have a daughter that will be 10 this year and feel we are coming close to the day we need to fully explain things to her. We have planted seeds over the years about how people take medicines and where medicines come from natural herbs and pills etc. lol but nothing outright yet. We have this cool book for when the time come called "It's just a plant". My hopes are to teach her about it before they do it in school and taint her perception of marijuana. This is something I tend to stress over as a parent.
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You don't want your daughter to be the only one in the class room raising her hand Defending the plant. Yes that sounds awesome! But those teachers are going to alert authorities then the fun starts.
 
Chiceh

Chiceh

Global Mod, Stoner Chic
Thor1911 said:
You don't want your daughter to be the only one in the class room raising her hand Defending the plant. Yes that sounds awesome! But those teachers are going to alert authorities then the fun starts.
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This is the stress lol.
 
shrxhky420

shrxhky420

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gioua said:
So figured I would create a lil post about those of us who are now adults with adult kids.. and those of us with kids at home..
I have 4 kids
Male Stepson since age 6) now age 24 (just married has a baby on the way)
Male Stepson since age 4) now age 22 (kinda lost in his direction currently... )
Daughter Age 16 a Junior in H.S
Son age 11 entering 8th grade.

I am 42 married for 17 years been thru a lot.

One of the first things I noticed was how I became my mom and dad around my kids.. I was telling my kids crap they use to tell me.. I began to notice heck my folks really were buzz kills they were just worried as hell..

I thought about this thread the other day while reading a article about how bad the whooping cough is this year and the effected ages and was for a moment relaxed since I had no kids this age.. till I realized I have a grandkid on the way.. and now will loose sleep over this..


thank GOD I smoke & medibles!


sure you guys have done this or worse..??
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I can kinda say that I have a 19yr old... she is actually my girlfriends daughter (we've been together for 6yrs) so she was 13 when I came into the picture and have watched her grow up to be a great young lady. She just started college and is doing awesome!!! we are all very proud of her. My gf also has a soon to be 16 year old daughter whom is also doing very well. I myself have a 13yr old daughter... damn so many girls in my life... she is also a great kid although she pushes the limits at times... I'm 38 and my gf is 45. It's been a lot of work but I think we have a great family. When I talk about my family I talk as if her kids are my own. Being a stepdad was not easy but it's gotten easier as I was able to gain there trust. The last 6 yrs have been incredible and I hope for many many more yrs with my family!!!! stay high
 
dababydroman

dababydroman

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i dont know how i would feel about marrying someone with kids already. iv never even dated someone with kids, i would, but it just seems a little bit weird. isnt it?
 
halfloaf

halfloaf

Active Member
Been with the wife for about 14 years we have 4 children 2 boys and 2 girls 3 of them are step kids but when i speak about them i just call them mine.
The eldest is 31 and the youngest is 11 our eldest daughter is 31 eldest son 29 the next son is 21 then the youngest 11.
The eldest son was a horny fuker when younger made me a grandad when i was 28 then again at 31 it's very sureal being called grandad.
We rase them as a familly as i said to them they worked or educate themselfs or get there own house they have all worked since leaving school.
You have to teach them that life has values you must have some values in life or they go through life being assholes.
My daughter the 11 year old just started her periods last week man that was mind blowing they growup to fast.
We try to do things as a family we holiday together and try to have 1 family meal together once a week as it's good to bond as a family.
I myself am 38 my wife is 50 but they are only numbers you get 1 life you have to grab the good parts with boath hands and not let go.
I will say even when your kids grow up and leave the house they still come back when they need cash lol.
 
Winter Woman

Winter Woman

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Children are expensive. Adult children are even more expensive.

Don't have children of my own. I have 5 step-kids, two of which have passed.
 
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