The Sex Talk Thread

Flaming Pie

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I think I said this before.

My titties are for my baby and my husband. Posting them on here would make me feel whorish.
 

Flaming Pie

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The color change is interesting tho. I read that the areolas darken to help the baby see and latch on.

What's weird is they are also super sensitive. But not in a sexy kinda way. More like a, please don't touch, way.
 

cannabineer

Ursus marijanus
The color change is interesting tho. I read that the areolas darken to help the baby see and latch on.

What's weird is they are also super sensitive. But not in a sexy kinda way. More like a, please don't touch, way.
You're probably in for a bit of an adjustment when a hungry little mouth latches onto them.

Or you may be one of the lucky ones for whom it's a real pleasure. cn
 

cannabineer

Ursus marijanus
If he has any sort of empathy at all, he'll back off when you show signs of discomfort. Don't be afraid to communicate those. cn
 

Flaming Pie

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If he has any sort of empathy at all, he'll back off when you show signs of discomfort. Don't be afraid to communicate those. cn
I have talked to him about it, and he doesn't touch them much anymore. Really only when I take his hand and put it there.

It helps speed up sex time. lol.

Sex isn't really that enjoyable for me anymore. I initiate it with him to keep him happy. I can tell when he needs it. He gets tired all the time and grumpy.
 

Flaming Pie

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I've read that some women experience "uterine flutter" while breastfeeding, and that it's quite nice. cn
It's supposed to help strength the muscles in the uterus and vagina and help clear out any remaining debris in there.

The reproductive organs are amazing.
 

cannabineer

Ursus marijanus
I have talked to him about it, and he doesn't touch them much anymore. Really only when I take his hand and put it there.

It helps speed up sex time. lol.

Sex isn't really that enjoyable for me anymore. I initiate it with him to keep him happy. I can tell when he needs it. He gets tired all the time and grumpy.
That was my downfall in my relationships. I cannot enjoy sex unless I am getting signals that she's into it. I am constitutively incapable of rape or dominance games. cn
 

Flaming Pie

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That was my downfall in my relationships. I cannot enjoy sex unless I am getting signals that she's into it. I am constitutively incapable of rape or dominance games. cn
I enjoy it mentally and emotionally. I love the fact that he is still into my body and that it gives him pleasure. I want to be his source of pleasure.

I just don't feel much pleasure because I am thinking about the baby or my tits stretching, or our bellies touching... and so on.
 

Ninjabowler

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I read that breastfeeding releases oxytocin and it is a powerful relaxant.
Oxytocin is also released when you and your partner touch each other, i think ay type of touching releases it into your body. My friend is a scientist and he always refered to his girlfriend as his oxytocin factory. It releases stress and makes you feel good all over. I think some drugs can make you feel the effects of it also. Moral of this long winded story is touching is good for you ;)
 

cannabineer

Ursus marijanus
Oxytocin is also released when you and your partner touch each other, i think ay type of touching releases it into your body. My friend is a scientist and he always refered to his girlfriend as his oxytocin factory. It releases stress and makes you feel good all over. I think some drugs can make you feel the effects of it also. Moral of this long winded story is touching is good for you ;)
I am so out of touch. cn
 

Ninjabowler

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I enjoy it mentally and emotionally. I love the fact that he is still into my body and that it gives him pleasure. I want to be his source of pleasure.

I just don't feel much pleasure because I am thinking about the baby or my tits stretching, or our bellies touching... and so on.
Hey cutiepie, remember when i told you how much i was in love with my ex while she was prego? I didnt worry about any of that stuff, all i cared about was that my baby was inside my fiances belly and that made her the most beautifull woman in the world to me. It kinda sucked with the whole sex thing and dealing with her being uncomortable all the time and irritable, hormonal, self conscious, and lots of other stuff but hey, thats pregnancy for ya. He loves you and he thinks your beautiful, dont let your feelings sabbotage you right now. They will play tricks on you. My ex has confessed that she knew it was her hormones talking but there was nothing she could do about it. Trust in your man and trust me, it will all be worth it when you hold that baby in your arms :):):)
 
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