Ditch the bitch. That's fucking insane.
Great, now I'm pissed! XD
*edit* After reading the other posts, I can't knock you for respecting your girls wishes, but the way it sounds is that she snatched your balls from you and threatened to drop them into the food processor. I don't know if that's the case, but if it was, then that's crazy.
I hope you still end up with a good crop at your friends place. As far as it being illegal... There are ways to grow and there are ways not to grow. All bases covered, you won't ever get caught.
Some dumbass here in my state stole some TV's and the cops came with a search warrant... Found his grow OP! Lmao.
Honestly, I somewhat had to convince the wife to let me grow. I would've done it anyway because she knows I do what I want. I just wanted to ease her mind about it. But, anyway, in the end, she realized that it's safer for me to grow at home, privately, than it is to trust some dealer who will probably get caught eventually and maybe take me down with him. Besides, I don't want to be on someone else's timetable.
Truth.
Peace.
