cool14001
Active Member
Do your own thing and the girls will come. If you're traveling you should def stop by. Tell her you need to get it out of your system before settling down. If you go to oklahoma and stay with her without traveling, isn't there a chance you may regret it and blame her, at least subconsciously? If you don't like cali, you can always stop by her place on the way back to see what happens. I think you should get that fun/adventurous side out of you before you become a family man. You can't go back after that; well at least it's more likely you can go back to oklahoma after california (as long as she knows your doing it for yourself; don't let her think your tossing her to the side). It's easy for me to say though. Either way your taking a chance. I hope it works out for you bro.