Time to get rid of the girl friend, let's have some fun.

sunni said:

eek lahada you need to have a soft spot or an angry one with this subject.
not every junkie is a whore, or has stds , and not every junkie looks ugly with bad teeth

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lahadaextranjera said:

Show me an old good looking junkie and I'll agree. No such thing as an old junkie.

If she is at the point of injecting to get her fix, then how do you suppose she can support her habit which now has a higher tolerance?

This isn't a $20 a day habit after work type thing. Her whole day revolves around it.

There's no mention that she hasn't shared needles or taken a Hep test.

She's started a relationship based on lies and shows little remorse to fix up and go on a rehab course. If the OP wasn't seriously considering ending it over this then he wouldn't have started the thread. Not too many people have said to stay with her.

OP, just ask yourself this:- How do you feel about introducing her to your parents/family ? What would they think?

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sunni said:

ask her if she wants to quit
if she says yes, call and see who can go get her help rehab ect.
ultimately its up to her it

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sunni said:

first off we have little to base the situation off of really its only his side of the story to say she has no remorse to fix it up could be true, but it could be untrue as well since we dont know how she is feeling.
he posted aphoto of her, she looks like she isnt that far gone. doesnt mean there isnt help for her out there.
I used to be a drug addict, i look fine. saying were all std infested ugly people isnt exactly true, many people abuse drugs and hide it quite well and continue on with their daily lives.

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sunni said:

so than do something abotu it.

ask her if she wants to quit
if she says yes, call and see who can go get her help rehab ect.
ultimately its up to her, and you as a loved one can only push her so much in the right direction
but you need to put your foot down and you need to let her know this drug abuse isnt okay, and she gets help or thats it

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lahadaextranjera said:

We only know what the OP tell us so based on that...

What % of heroin addicts make a fully recovery after years of needle abuse? Less than 5% I think it is.

Sunni, you're 23. Some people take this shit for decades and never come back. They experiment in teenage years or their 20's and by their 30's they're fucked! I'm talking serious habits of $200+/day supported usually by crime. Of course very few do give up, very few though.

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sunni said:

by her photo she looks about 23..also im 24 , are you saying my age has something to do with intelligence about drug abuse? not following you here.

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sunni said:

eek lahada you need to have a soft spot or an angry one with this subject.
not every junkie is a whore, or has stds , and not every junkie looks ugly with bad teeth

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ODanksta said:

I want to thank y'all for being understanding. It's means a lot. I am in tears right now, it's really hard when you love the shit out of someone, you see past the problems. I'm a alcoholic so who am I to judge

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tytheguy111 said:

man theres a point were your so far gone youll never change


i mean yeah you can quit but if youve been using it for years and i mean like 15 or 20 years then theres no help

i had an uncle that had liver cancer and he was a heavy drinker the doctor told him that if he stopped drinking then he would more than likely survive cancer


now he was a 60 year old man and hes been drinking since he was 12


he looked his doctor in the face and said "you or any asshole in this hospital can tell my wife to change my diet and make me walk once a day but the one thing you'll never get me to put down the bottle"




to make a long story short i can show you where his tombstone is

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lahadaextranjera said:

Show me an old good looking junkie and I'll agree. No such thing as an old junkie.

If she is at the point of injecting to get her fix, then how do you suppose she can support her habit which now has a higher tolerance?

This isn't a $20 a day habit after work type thing. Her whole day revolves around it.

There's no mention that she hasn't shared needles or taken a Hep test.

She's started a relationship based on lies and shows little remorse to fix up and go on a rehab course. If the OP wasn't seriously considering ending it over this then he wouldn't have started the thread. Not too many people have said to stay with her.

OP, just ask yourself this:- How do you feel about introducing her to your parents/family ? What would they think?

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ODanksta said:

Only 18 months, married for 10 years, two beautiful kids, she is a loving mom. She most likely has less partners then me. I she a super clean girl. She is a crafty, artistic kinda girl. Real into art

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lahadaextranjera said:

Where did I write that all drug addicts are ugly std infested people? I didn't!
I simply questioned her shared needle use regarding hep and hiv. Yes her teeth will suffer too in the long run. Nor did I mention anything about intelligence! Where?

Stop comparing yourself to a heroin addict. It's prob the worst addiction out there. Did you share needles too?

You still have not said how she'd support this expensive habit when I'm quite clear it would be crime of some sort.

Still no mention of rehab and actions speak louder than words, as you know.

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lahadaextranjera said:

Where did I write that all drug addicts are ugly std infested people? I didn't!
I simply questioned her shared needle use regarding hep and hiv. Yes her teeth will suffer too in the long run. Nor did I mention anything about intelligence! Where?

Stop comparing yourself to a heroin addict. It's prob the worst addiction out there. Did you share needles too?

You still have not said how she'd support this expensive habit when I'm quite clear it would be crime of some sort.

Still no mention of rehab and actions speak louder than words, as you know.

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lahadaextranjera said:

What's the latest? Has she said she wants to get help? Has it been many years for her now? Has she tried before? I'm not saying its impossible but I have enough first hand life experience in this to tell you that you have a battle on your hands. If its early days still, it'll be easier to walk away, of she decides to carry on. Good luck.

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lahadaextranjera said:

She's been doing it for 18 mths and injecting already?? Unusual at that age to start up with that, especially with the responsibilty of 2 kids. Sounds like she has a lot to give up for.

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