Crap, don't do that! I love water!
bonz, I can totally understand that you have a very different perspective because of your experiences. My own point has nothing to do with the wheres and hows of cocaine and heroine, it has to do with the fact that these two substances are regulated because they cannot be used safely by the average person. This is not the same, however, as saying they have no benefits, medical or otherwise. This is acknowledging that they are very powerful drugs that humans can and do use.
Addiction, however, cannot be legislated away. It exists in absence of heroine and cocaine, doesn't it? I'm sure you know just as well as I do that the addict tends to "addict" to almost anything their brain latches onto. Sexual addictions mean that we would.... what, legislate away sex? Would you offer up that their addiction has no impact on themselves or others in a manner similar to those addicted to "hard" drugs? How about those addicted to pills? Are we going to get rid of prescription meds because there are those who cannot control themselves, and then go on to do other bad things because of their lack of control? Gambling falls under these auspices, and I am very much in favor of allowing gambling, though I kind of like the idea of keeping it to Indian gaming for a whole host of reasons.
Either way, I still stand by my own beliefs, which are that you have a right to completely fuck yourself up as long as it doesn't cost me or infringe upon others. Families will
always have shit to deal with, too, so that's not the most compelling reason I've heard. You think addiction is tough? Try on a healthy dose of schizophrenia on for size. Or maybe a good hard long bout with clinical depression, the suicidal kind. It simply cannot be helped, it simply is what it is, we are all simply quite fucked up in our own special ways, and I refuse to buy into the idea of legislating that away, because it just can't be done effectively or inexpensively.
So those of us who manage to keep our wits about us feel pain and displeasure and worry and heartsickness because of those we love. And we (rightly? wrongly?) want to fix that which ails those we love, that which turns them into that which we don't love. This is the human condition. It will always be.