Northern Spark
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Just saw this page, I've been out for around a year and I'm starting to remember why I got out.... Well college professors fortunately aren't late for the most part, so there's that.
Veterans...Get the hell in here now!
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Flaming Pie
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My dad was air force 20 years and my husband was marines for 5.
my uncle was a 2 time iraq war vet and commanded a national guard company
he was a marine for over 11 years until he joined national guard i think
i know he was also deployed to bosnia several times...
greatest man ever he was so nice ...and he had seriously the best sense of humor ever!
Flaming Pie
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My hubby's friend wishes he could use cannabis. Big no no with VA when you are receiving disability apparently. They'd rather he carry a backpack of pills everywhere he goes.
Flaming Pie
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Fuck him. The guy you replied to.
Not every chick is a massive hornball. Probably like 10%.
The real problem with infedelity arises after the man comes home completely fucked in the head and angry/depressed over the things he has seen.
Not easy for wife or service member.
he just doesnt like me he keeps saying bs shit to try and rile me up he thinks hes superior,
hes mad i deleted a nude photo he posted and gave him a warning
after i did that he posted several things just to be rude
he also said to enjoy my new american benefits
like i came from canada...i have less benefits here than i do back home. lol
Flaming Pie
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My husband was berated constantly and told that if he went overseas to expect me to cheat on him.
They told all the men this.
ya ive heard about it too
im sure some do cheat, but thats relationships people cheat sometimes whether youre oversears or gone to boston for the weekend while you do some corporate business
BM9AGS
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*some Regular army guys marry strippers and the like and give them full access to bank accts and deploy and come home to nothing. It's just nature punishing the stupid.
I was marines and am now army and in the regular units it's all about mass punishment. If one dude gets a DUI everyone gets punished. It's poor leadership
Sorry yall gotta deal with mass punishment too of the military
When I was married I wouldn't want my wife to go to FRG or wife parties in the regular army. When she did she came back and told me how they talked about having a seperate bank account for when they leave their husbands and how it's ok to gain 10 lbs every deployment. But it's all equal as their husbands were dirt bags and married the likes.
Likely the dude trolling Sunni married a stripper and lost everything. It's always easier to look out the window than inside
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BM9AGS
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FRG parties. Army wife parties.
You'll find good good people but there are lots of trash families in the military no different than normal society. When I was married my ex and I were propositioned for swinging and stupid shit so make friends but always watch for other motives.....
You'll see it and appreciate havig your own life outside of your husbands career. You'll see women that have ACU purses with their husbands rank on it and the stupid army wife bumper stickers. I've been in Germany where it's so beautiful to travel and over heard a depedapotamos boasting how she hasent left post (small post) in over 6 months.
You have a lot of rough times ahead of you so always plan and execute your plans for family and vacation time otherwise he will be too tired to plan them and you'll think you're being considerate by letting him rest but if you do the family/vacation time he will be tired but happy he did something with you. Remember the little things are what makes your memories and keeps things strong when things are bad.
There's also always great MWR trips happening if he's lower rank and honestly the chaplain trips are awesome; they're paid for and you don't have to listen to the religious stuff it's just free vacation andhis command will give him time off for it because it's mandated by the army.
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i was being mostly sarcastic lol
i think it would be all who you make friends with
i dont make friends i already have some.
i make acquaintances people whom i dont speak about things of importance with rarely see them and never make plans with
the people ive made acquaintances here seem all very happy, no one wears their husbands rank and no one is snooty, if they choose ot cheat on their husbands thats their own choice
but i know nothing of the sort .
where i live the husbands and wives all do things together, we are always invited i accept one a month if it is something of interest, i keep distance.
but the ones ive been too, all seem very quaint and a good time
i believe it is because people where my husband works at least this place are all a bit older and have established families and visibly happy families
were talking like block party bbq's with a beer or two.
we've been on 2 trips /vacations in the last year, and they have been very fun and not stressful and hubby was active in all the decision making
i think all these variables have to do with type of job they do, and age group honestly
BM9AGS
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Yeah job would make sense but I'm near 40 and often I want to come home and just relax....retirement is very soon tho
I've never hung out with guys in the medical field dated some of the chicks and their lives and relaxed living is different for sure. I promise you that if you hang out in the px long enough you'll see the spouse wearing her husbands pt shirt and an ACU purse with husbands name tape and rank eventually....
meh if they so feel to wear the name tape and rank let emYeah job would make sense but I'm near 40 and often I want to come home and just relax....retirement is very soon tho
I've never hung out with guys in the medical field dated some of the chicks and their lives and relaxed living is different for sure. I promise you that if you hang out in the px long enough you'll see the spouse wearing her husbands pt shirt and an ACU purse with husbands name tape and rank eventually....
she aint harming me
i rarely go on base, went once for gas
nor do i live in base housing
ecno living i just know lots of military marries young when youre young you have the mentality of young
my husband is older than me, so im out of that young mentality of living like partying etc
all the people he speaks with are older have families that kinda thing
Singlemalt
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She's my Sicilian grand daughter and learned well
lol im just naturally not interested in hanging out with people i dont have a single thing in common with
i already have friends, im certainly friendly to all the couples i meet absolutely 0 reason to be mean , but that doesnt mean ill go going to get my nails and hair done with them on saturday mornings either.
Singlemalt
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Like I said, Sicilian
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BarnBuster
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wher's he been?