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You can talk to us, we have all this female insight going on, come here, you can cry on my shoulder, you're probably around the age of my son anyway.

misshestermoffitt said:

Dude I'm sorry, but if she's going to be like that, best to be done with her. A cheater always cheats, but look on the bright side, if she'll cheat with him, she'll cheat on him.........kick her to the curb, you're worth more than that.

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she says she hasnt cheated on me, and i have no proof that she did, just these very very sneaky suspect texts.

and her telling me he's in love with her, and how shed never cheat on me and this and that and the other..

i want to believe her but i really dont...

idk what to do with the dog if we break up..i got it for her, but he lives with me...

i dont think ill be able to keep it...

this sucks.

DudeLebowski said:

i am too.

ive been crying since last night. i feel like a pile of shit.

i dont have anyone to talk to about it, because that scumbag was supposed to be my best friend. and so was she.

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Man, I am so sorry. I know the pain you are feeling, all too well. You will hear this a thousand times, and, you will get sick of it, but, it is the truth....Here it goes, you are better off without her. If she is willing to do something this vile, she is not worth keeping. You will look back at this one day and you will be thankful she did what she did. You will be glad and happy that you found out her true colors before you married her. I am sorry and I know the pain is deep, but, I can tell you it will get better.

DudeLebowski said:

I think my girlfriend of 4 years is leaving me for my dealer.

i dont even know what the fuck to say.

i knew something was fishy so i looked at her phone, and its all endless texts about how they should move in together and shit like that.

im so fucking sad.

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Bummer ,, But maybe its best

just remember it's not the dogs fault so don't punish the poor dog.

Maybe it's for the better, imagine if you'd bought a house and had kids, at least you guys can split up without funding a lawyers vacation.

Just think now you wont have to share your stash ..

Whatever you do don't act irrational!! Trust me, I have been there. I freaked the fuck out, and I reacted to the situation with a can of spray paint....all over her house and car....."Slut, Whore, Husband Stealer, Cunt" You name it, I painted it! NOT WORTH IT!

The best advice my father ever gave me was when this happened. He told me "I know your angry and hurt. I know you want revenge. The best revenge is living your life well. People like this ALWAYS fall on their own, they don't need your push."

Just stay calm and don't do anything you may regret. (Like I did)

misshestermoffitt said:

You can talk to us, we have all this female insight going on, come here, you can cry on my shoulder, you're probably around the age of my son anyway.

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thanks miss

i appreciate it, its just good to hear that someone is nice enough to listen.

i dont even understand this situation at all...im so fuckin confused about it that i cant really even explain it..

i guess all i can say is it started about a week before i stopped going to pick up trees from him, and my girl started picking it up on the way home...

ever since then she's lied to me almost everyday about stupid things, where she was, who she was with, when she was doing something she wasnt doing...several times id call to ask what she was doing, shed say she was hanging out with a female friend, and then i see her in town and shes by herself gettin lunch...like..whats the point of lying about that? the lie itself starts the arguements not even necessarily what shes lying about..because if shes lying about mundane pointless shit, whats she really trying to cover up?

so i stopped talking to the dealer because he just seemed mad sketchy around me, and stopped seeming like my friend. this was all about a month and change ago...i read her celly last night.. idk what happend in between, other than she started not calling as much, hangin out as much, staying over as much...shed complain she wanted to be by herself to piss me off knowing shes one of what used to be 3 peolpe i could enjoy being around, now down to 2... and that'll probably be thinned out to 1 if she is cheating on me...

im so fuckin sad i i dont even know. i wish i had some whiskey.

Wow Sunny, you rebel, did you kick the bitches ass?

I think if someone even tried to cheat with my man I would snap. It's a small town, it's no secret that we're married.

I'm glad I can trust him, there's no place he'd rather be than at home.

Sunnysideup said:

Whatever you do don't act irrational!! Trust me, I have been there. I freaked the fuck out, and I reacted to the situation with a can of spray paint....all over her house and car....."Slut, Whore, Husband Stealer, Cunt" You name it, I painted it! NOT WORTH IT!

The best advice my father ever gave me was when this happened. He told me "I know your angry and hurt. I know you want revenge. The best revenge is living your life well. People like this ALWAYS fall on their own, they don't need your push."

Just stay calm and don't do anything you may regret. (Like I did)

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that voice in the back of all our heads that says revenge, that says get yours you FUCKING pussy..its not really us. they try to convince us they are our best friends, but really...thats just our ego.

i want revenge.
but i want my girlfriend so much more.

i feel like im putting off heat everything around me feels mad tense...

keep the dog, dump the girl

Dude, I'm sorry for your pain, but I think it's time to cut her lose. Sometimes people just aren't meant to be together and she sounds like a BBD kind of girl, always on the lookout for the Bigger Better Deal.

I'm sad for you, but drinking won't make it go away. I agree with Sunny, live your life well. Do the best you can do and one day she'll be looking at you thinking "damn I really fucked that one up"

Now that is sweet revenge.

I'm sure the right girl is out there, you just haven't found her yet.

misshestermoffitt said:

Wow Sunny, you rebel, did you kick the bitches ass?

I think if someone even tried to cheat with my man I would snap. It's a small town, it's no secret that we're married.

I'm glad I can trust him, there's no place he'd rather be than at home.

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No, I didn't physically fight her. I knew her, well. I just spray painted her house and car. She was lucky. I could have killed her, and, I thought about it. She was a friend of my family. We picked her up when she was down and gave her a home to live in until she got on her feet. We treated her like one of us. She wiped the sweat off my head when I laid in the hospital dying of cancer, she cleaned my house, she kept care of my children...all the while she was sleeping with my husband. It was a very bad time, one I would not wish on my worst enemy.

DudeLebowski said:

that voice in the back of all our heads that says revenge, that says get yours you FUCKING pussy..its not really us. they try to convince us they are our best friends, but really...thats just our ego.

i want revenge.
but i want my girlfriend so much more.

i feel like im putting off heat everything around me feels mad tense...

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You are stressed, and, you have every right to be. Keep busy, make plans to do something constructive. The worst case scenario is already here, it can't get any worse. Once you accept it you will be able to move on. It is hard, and you can do it!

misshestermoffitt said:

Dude, I'm sorry for your pain, but I think it's time to cut her lose. Sometimes people just aren't meant to be together and she sounds like a BBD kind of girl, always on the lookout for the Bigger Better Deal.

I'm sad for you, but drinking won't make it go away. I agree with Sunny, live your life well. Do the best you can do and one day she'll be looking at you thinking "damn I really fucked that one up"

Now that is sweet revenge.

I'm sure the right girl is out there, you just haven't found her yet.

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i think i might just have a sit down and give up on relationships for a minute...this will have officially ruined my ring of friends.

i wont be able to visit the people the dealer lives with, whom were my friends before he moved in there...i wont be able to hang out with my girl, or him...

ill just be able to chill with my neighbor..and he's a working man with a wife an kids so that's hard to do except once a week to smoke..

i just dont think i wanna be around people if this is really the end of this relationship...maybe ill go back to school...

Dude i surprize d a hell out of myself i was smokin a tulip joint and i had a visoin that barrak obama was legalizin marijuana. Feeeeeaaaaaaaaarrrrrrr ttttthhhhhheeeee tulip!!!!!!!

Sunnysideup said:

No, I didn't physically fight her. I knew her, well. I just spray painted her house and car. She was lucky. I could have killed her, and, I thought about it. She was a friend of my family. We picked her up when she was down and gave her a home to live in until she got on her feet. We treated her like one of us. She wiped the sweat off my head when I laid in the hospital dying of cancer, she cleaned my house, she kept care of my children...all the while she was sleeping with my husband. It was a very bad time, one I would not wish on my worst enemy.


You are stressed, and, you have every right to be. Keep busy, make plans to do something constructive. The worst case scenario is already here, it can't get any worse. Once you accept it you will be able to move on. It is hard, and you can do it!

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im smokin the last bit of pot ill have for a long time seeing as how he was supplyin it. cant start growing til i get a new place, and im unemployed til feb 28th. atleast ill pass any pisstest that the forces that be may spring on me..

You should swear off women for one year. Just worry about yourself, take care of yourself, do everything for you for one year. After that year, you'll have fresh perspective when you meet a girl.

So the dealer lives with other people and the girl wants to move there? I give this situation 6 months if that. When she gets sick of things, don't take her back. Be strong and just say no.

dudelebowski said:

im smokin the last bit of pot ill have for a long time seeing as how he was supplyin it. Cant start growing til i get a new place, and im unemployed til feb 28th. Atleast ill pass any pisstest that the forces that be may spring on me..

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dude that sucks if i cant get high at least five times a day i get seriuosly pissed.

misshestermoffitt said:

You should swear off women for one year. Just worry about yourself, take care of yourself, do everything for you for one year. After that year, you'll have fresh perspective when you meet a girl.

So the dealer lives with other people and the girl wants to move there? I give this situation 6 months if that. When she gets sick of things, don't take her back. Be strong and just say no.

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no no, they both want to move away somewhere by the look of it...

DudeLebowski said:

im smokin the last bit of pot ill have for a long time seeing as how he was supplyin it. cant start growing til i get a new place, and im unemployed til feb 28th. atleast ill pass any pisstest that the forces that be may spring on me..

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Awww Dude! I will mail you herb, fuck your dick head dealer!!!

Good for you on the job! That will keep your mind off this shit. Try and remember that everything happens for a reason. I am a firm believer of this and that good things DO happen to good people. Stay to true to yourself and the people you hold dear and you will see that good things will come your way.