What do you know about child support?

Gary Goodson

Gary Goodson

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tyler.durden said:
Ah, I misunderstood. I absolutely agree. My problem was that I got him every weekend and Wednesdays, too. I couldn't afford to pay rent, let alone take him out, buy him things, etc.. Meanwhile, she had all my money to spend and treat him. It hurts when your kid says, 'Daddy doesn't buy me things, I like it at mommy's better...' All because of an outrageous and hasty court order. I just wish it was fair...
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I never meant any disrespect brother, I was talking about deadbeat dads that can just act like they have no responsibility.

I have 3 kids and I couldn't Imagine them calling someone else dad...

as a matter of fact, the thought makes me wanna punch a random person in the FACE!
 
tangerinegreen555

tangerinegreen555

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Gary Goodson said:
i'm just saying how can a man not be a man and take care of his own children?


To me thats not a man at all...
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Of course...

except that sometimes child support really turns out to be bad mommy support and the kids get screwed anyway...

seen it 100 times, mommy blows the money and dad or grand parents buy the kid most of the clothes, shoes, etc.

2 sides to every story...
 
Gary Goodson

Gary Goodson

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tangerinegreen555 said:
Of course...

except that sometimes child support really turns out to be bad mommy support and the kids get screwed anyway...

seen it 100 times, mommy blows the money and dad or grand parents buy the kid most of the clothes, shoes, etc.
2 sides to every story...
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ive seen that as well, and that is the fucked up side of things, but im still talking about making an effort.

i get that the system isnt right, but that has no bearing on how much(quality) time you spend with your own children.
 
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tangerinegreen555

tangerinegreen555

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Gary Goodson said:
ive seen that as well, and that is the fucked up side of things, but im still talking about making an effort.

i get that the system isnt right, but that has no bearing on how much time you spend with your own children.
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Yeah, I hear ya. Most guys love having their kids some days of the week...
Many bitch that mommy spends the money on partying...

I'd have to say they sometimes have a point...

When the kids get to be teenagers, they have more say in who they live with and it's not always mom anymore.
 
Gary Goodson

Gary Goodson

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If me and Mrs Goodson split up, there would be not need for child support. Just because we cant work shit out doesnt mean that I dont want to spend time(or money) with my children. FFS WTF is wrong with mother fuckers?

shit wouldnt change as far as finances would go. They are still my children and I still have expectations for them.
 
abe supercro

abe supercro

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StonedFarmer said:
1 child on the way. I will do what ever I have to for her and the kid. I love the chick but circumstances have forced her to move provinces. Id move with her but certain things are holsing me back for a year or however many.
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maybe you best be with them now, since you only have the one on the way. what could be so compelling to keep you apart?


StonedFarmer said:
I know ebough I dont pay it...

Naw no childsupport here
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Yep, usually having children is a prerequisite for paying child support. ;-) IF that makes sense..
 
Aeroknow

Aeroknow

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Gary Goodson said:
If me and Mrs Goodson split up, there would be not need for child support. Just because we cant work shit out doesnt mean that I dont want to spend time(or money) with my children. FFS WTF is wrong with mother fuckers?

shit wouldnt change as far as finances would go. They are still my children and I still have expectations for them.
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Me and my ex did shit outside of court. I gave her 600 bucks a month, for about ten years. I also bought my daughter everything she needed. I complained to my family, but knew it was the only thing to do. I was fortunate to have a decent paying job and grow bud. But I made it happen.
I made sure I wasn't a fucking dick like my dad was to my mom. 5 kids, and barely paid shit! No more, no less.
My mom would send us to his house in SoCal some summers with a shaved head beacause he was such a fucking cheap ass, he wouldn't even get us a haircut, because he had to send money to our mother, even while we were there. But he would tithe 15 or whatever percent to his church because he was reborn again. Fuck that shit! It ain't your kids fault. Gotta take care of the kids, straight up. Even if you hate your ex. It's hard, i know.
 
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