What is wrong and how can I fix it?

Im too close to the end to screw this up now. what does this look like. maybe spider mites ? had them in the beginning but was able to get rid of them with an organic spray

Thats a LOT of mites, post a pic of the underside of the leaves.

Ok bro, it loks like you have mite problem.
Go into your garden and pick 5 of the most damaged leafs and bring them into your house for some decent pictures.
Usually the ones on the bottom of the plant are the most damaged.
Then try analyze the under side of the leaf because that is where you will see them.
They will look like little dots and will move when you touch them.
Send some pics regardless and we will see if you can solve this quickly to get them healthy again.