What kind of guy does this? Made me wary?

Urca

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Many, and everyone was with regard to a date, not friends meeting for a smoke. Friends might warn the other with regard of what to expect for say, identifying in a crowd at a festival, not just warning in advance. Seriously, come on....

I chat online with a lot of people, i do not need to know what they look like before meeting up with them, because i couldn't give a shit, so why would anyone else. Anyone who doesn't like someone they first meet because they are fat or whatever, they were never their with friends as their initial goal. That of they are such a shallow person that you'd be glad they walked away fom you, fucking knowing people like that.

Not to be harsh, but you're 18, act like it. Friends do not give two damns about your appearance unless say you're trying to win free entry to a swanky club or something silly where it's all based on looks "your face... offends... my mirror" haha, watched that a few nights ago :D Everything you are saying is ringing true or arranging a date, not meeting a friend.
idk, i just didnt want disappointment or nasty comments or whatever. it was not a date at all
 

tip top toker

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i dont look for dates online, this wasnt a date
Then why did you make every move on your part to make it seem like possibly a date for him. Nothing adds up for just "friends" meeting up. Before you do things, take a step back and question how your actions might be perceived by the other party. Maybe you'll find some answers to your questions.

If you told me about your appearance and weight and body before meeting up, i would not be thinking this was 2 freinds meeting up. Is that simple enough for you. If you don't want to be left wary, stop making your intentions so ambiguous.

What dissapointment????? You're meeting as friends, jesus fucking christ.!/!?!????? You don't seem to comprehend what a friend is. You're looks don't mean jack fucking shit if you're meeting as friends because all friends want to do is enjoy a good time, not get horny at the sight of the other.

If all it is is freinds meeting, then start acting like it and stop making it out like a date to him!

You really don't do yourself any favours do you?
 

dam612

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i just dont know where you talk to people online to meetup, only thing that comes to mind is matchmaking sites. did you like facebook chat him or something? meet him on another forum? public chat rooms on aim?
 

RawBudzski

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1st.. Their is NO SUCH THING as being "friends" with a chick you've only kicked it with once. 2nd, Their is HARDLY SUCH THING as being "friends" when you've known a girl a long time. 3rd, anyone who says their JUST "Friends" but have/planned/imagine sleeping with the other person is in-denial. Life's not a movie Starring Justin Timberlake & Mila Kunis.
 

Urca

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i just dont know where you talk to people online to meetup, only thing that comes to mind is matchmaking sites. did you like facebook chat him or something? meet him on another forum? public chat rooms on aim?
idk, cant remember how we met, but we've just been texting each other when i wait for class to start, or stuff like that. then he heard i didnt have any weed, and asked me if i wanted to hang out and smoke
 

Johnny Retro

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1st.. Their is NO SUCH THING as being "friends" with a chick you've only kicked it with once. 2nd, Their is HARDLY SUCH THING as being "friends" when you've known a girl a long time. 3rd, anyone who says their JUST "Friends" but have/planned/imagine sleeping with the other person is in-denial. Life's not a movie Starring Justin Timberlake & Mila Kunis.
I've got a lot of girls that are just friends, sure I'd like to rail a few of them, but want nothing more than that.
 

RawBudzski

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Well, not being able to Rail them is your fault ^_^ if your penis was permitted. you would, & they would not just be platonic friends.
 

Johnny Retro

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Not the case. They wouldn't unless in a relationship. Plus I've known a few of them for over 10 years, so I'd be pretty weird.
 

ylem

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lol this thread is pretty funny.
i think he was just being chill. not every dude is out to jump girls on the sly, me included. mabye drugs killed my sex drive though...
 

metaltooths

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:waits to be told:

I get high with good looking chicks, some times.
When I don't try to get them naked, I don't feel like fag.
 

EvlMunkee

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Try taking this guy at face value. There are a lot of possible reasons. Maybe he got too high and felt awkward. Maybe he enjoys your company as a friend. And here is a possibility...he wants to get to know you better?????
If he hasn't offended you or creeped you out, why not just play it by ear.
 

cruzer101

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Sounds to me like you found a nice guy. I believe people are a product of there environment. If you live in the getto and are surrounded by selfish males then you would expect them to want something from you. From what I've read it sounds like the guys from out of town. Different environment, different values. He may or may not have an ulterior motive such as getting into your pants. Personally I wouldn't have anything to do with an overweight chick who lived in a getto for the simple fact that she, her family and friends think different then I do. You didn't have sex the first date. OK, you showed him you you have some values. If he comes back and you like him now move forward for a chance at a better life.
 
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