deff looks male to me. It will show a tiny ass little nub just like in the photo and in the next week or 2, youll have lots of tiny ass balls. Ill bet my pet donkey it's a dude for sure.
ok, thanks everyone for the responses, i will get the sawsall ready to cut the plant down in a few days if indeed there are no hairs. just wished male plants werent such a waste of time =/